03/30/2026
I’m going to say this, and I’m going to say it plainly.
For far too long, my family—myself, my wife, and even one of my adult children—have been targeted with lies, slander, and false accusations by hateful people in our community. These weren’t just rumors… these were coordinated attacks from individuals and groups in the Bryan County/Grayson County area who actively tried to turn people against us and destroy what we stand for.
Some of these same people went as far as sending death threats. Let that sink in.
Funny how those threats suddenly stopped once I made it clear this was no longer staying at a local level and would be taken to the state and federal level. What bothered me the most wasn’t just the lies—it was how this was handled behind our backs. My youngest children were pulled out of class and questioned about our family without our knowledge or consent. As a parent, that didn’t sit right with me, and I started making calls immediately. After digging and pushing for answers, I finally got a response from Oklahoma DHS.
And now, after everything…
The investigation is officially over.
The findings?
Unsubstantiated.
All of it—every accusation, every rumor, every attempt to paint us as something we are not—came back with nothing.
Yet warrants were issued.
We were charged.
We were arrested.
Our names and mugshots were dragged across social media by the same people sending threats and praying for our downfall.
That should never have happened. I have screenshots of fake profiles, messages, and posts where people openly wished for my family to be destroyed and for my children to be taken from me while celebrating anytime our family would take a hit. That level of hate is real—and it’s wrong. Despite all of it…
They almost destroyed my family—but they didn’t.
They almost broke us—but they didn’t. We bent, but we never broke.
Moving forward, I am seriously reconsidering the school environment for my children. What happened should have never happened the way it did, and we will be making decisions that protect our family first. Let me make this clear: We have been together over 20 years. We’ve raised our kids, and we’ve helped raise others we love along the way. We know who we are.
So don’t believe everything you read online. A lot of people spreading hate are dealing with their own unhappiness and choose to tear others down instead of fixing themselves.
And to those who have targeted us—
We don’t know you.
We’ve never met you.
And we have no desire to.
The legal troubles are over.
The truth is out.
The findings are Unsubstantiated.
Now do us a favor, and
Leave me and my family alone for good. Thanks!
Dad