26/11/2025
It’s abt how you respond to the feelings that matters. If hating your body leads you to starving, compulsively exercising, binge eating, purging, missing events with friends, avoiding outings, not wearing what you want to wear, and other things that basically keep you out of life, then that’s a problem. But the problem isn’t the body hatred itself, it’s the actions in response to it. You can hate your body AND still decide to go to class. Hate your body and wear the dress you thought was cute. Hate your body and go to the beach.
Believe me, I know this isn’t easy. That voice is SO loud. But I really thought I had to wait for that voice to get quieter before I could start to do things I wanted and start to feel better. And that’s not how it works. Slowly (and I do mean S-L-O-W-L-Y) by doing life while hating my body, that voice started to get a little quieter and show up a little less.
It’s still there and makes appearances. And yes, I am recovered. And yes, I still can hate my body. Maybe not all the time. But I also have a lot of practice at living my life in a body that I may not love, but is allowing me to live in a life I do.
If you like what you read and would like to work with me or chat more, or perhaps something I said resonated and you are struggling with body hatred and can’t imagine how to live life more fully in the face of that body hatred, reach out! I have space for a few new clients as we move into the holiday season.
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