12/15/2025
Transcript:
I remember my son’s first IEP meeting. I thought I’d done my homework. I had a folder, tabs, color coding, the whole thing. I walked in thinking, I’m ready. Then I sat down at that big table, surrounded by professionals with titles longer than my emails, and within five minutes… I realized I was not ready.
They went around the table: chairperson, therapist, specialist. By the time it got to me, all I could manage was, “Hi, I’m Sam… I’m the mom.”
And it hit me how small that sounded next to everyone else’s credentials. Like, great, I brought snacks. What did you all bring?
For the next hour, they talked. Fast. In what I can only describe as “education jargon mixed with mild condescension.” I kept nodding like I understood, taking notes that later looked like hieroglyphics. When they asked if I had questions, I wanted to say, “Yeah, what planet are we on?” But instead, I just smiled and said, “No, I’m good.”
I left feeling completely defeated. Sat in my car, stared at the steering wheel, and just lost it. I realized I can never feel this way again. Over the next 14 years, I’ve developed what I call the 8 commitments that I used to guide my advocacy for my son that I’m now sharing with you.
Those 8 Commitments are:
✨ acknowledging and accepting the diagnosis
✨ getting educated
✨ learning to trust yourself and grow your intuition
✨ shifting your mindset and overcoming barriers
✨ developing communication strategies
✨ building a support system
✨ advocating for your child (*with grace)
✨ and empowering your child
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