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Lexi Taveras, Fort Lauderdale, FL (2026)

03/11/2026

What gets measured gets managed babes! 👏

The beauty is — Learning to track your macros is a SKILL that is temporary to help you gain awareness & flexibility around your nutrition — eventually what’s super cool is you can wean off of tracking once you’ve reached your goals & BE able to structurally intuitively eat ACCURSTELY.

But even for me , a coach in this space for 7 years with MADDD experience tracking - I STILL will find myself OFF.

Tracking is now a tool for me to leverage when I need a BIT of dialing in ✅ and it feels NICE to be able to SEE the data for myself and not GUESS but actually know fo a FACT where I’m at.

If you’re wanting to dive into tracking , but dont know where to start, comment “MACROS” to get sent our tracking guide ✅ ⬇️

02/04/2026

When you want to change what you see in the mirror — do you change the reflection or yourself? 🪞

You see, a lot of us are approaching life by changing to change the reflection first — thinking it will make US change or feel better.

We take an external first approach.

Once the reflection in the mirror changes — THEN I’ll feel better.

Once I lose the weight THEN I’ll feel confident.
Once I pay off the debt THEN I’ll feel peace.
Once I get into the relationship or get the career THEN I’ll finally feel “good.”

And yes while these things do of course offer a sense of deep joy and accomplishment — once those first few weeks are gone by.. you will stil wonder why you don’t feel “whole” within yourself.

Because the external has changed but YOU haven’t changed . There’s a disconnect. & what I mean by “changed” is SELF IMAGE HEALING / Self concept.

And that’s all we really truly desire right?

Is to feel WHOLE within ourselves.

No matter if the scale is up or down.
Whether that guy or girl texts you back or not.
Whether you get told “no” a million X over in career or not.
Whether you’re in luteal phase or not.
Whether your skin is breaking out or not.

It’s feeling whole within yourself.

Being a Sovereign Woman.

You don’t change your life by changing the reflection 🪞 you change the reflection by healing your own self concept & self image.

💭 So, Lexi how do we heal / shift our self concept? 🪞 & change from the inside out ⬇️

1️⃣ Self Image Healing — Our brain 🧠 creates scripts on who we “believe ourselves to be” based off the past thoughts, stories, expeirences etc. I want you to think of someone you love dearly… feel it in your body.. now extend tha same love to yourself . Or your inner child if that helps.

Mirror work 🪞: Making eye contact with yourself in the mirror, placing ur hand up to the mirror and genuinely seeing yourself for your soul. For who you truly are. The greatest love is to be seen. See yourself. Love yourself.

stop standing in unflattering poses, stop wearing clothes that unflatter you & learn to truly love your body in all phases by understanding what is conditioning & what is unconditional

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02/03/2026

I remember the day where I questioned why I kept sabotaging my progress when I would do REALLY good… and the answer was something I never would’ve thought.

I rememeber walking into a Starbucks , asking God for clarity… and as I slowly looked up to the right , I saw this quote plastered on the wall word for word:

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light not our darkness that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous,
talented and fabulous?

Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other
people won’t feel insecure around you.

We were born to make manifest the glory of
God that is within us.

It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine,
we unconsciously give other people
permission to do the same.

As we are liberated from our own fear,
Our presence automatically liberates others.”
— Marianne Williamson

& it had me thinking 💭…

How much of my unconscious keeping myself small was ACTUSLLy everything to do with my inner “Nice girl.”

The one who didn’t want my light to shine too bright that it shined a light on others shadows.

The one that didn’t want to take up too much space bc it felt like if I took up space it took away from others.

The hidden intuition that the more beautiful, hot, radiant I became -/ the more I felt a weird jealousy, envy & insecurity from other women.

Or even just more UNWANTED attention from people.

So I stayed small.

To make others feel more comfortable.

Now I say F**KKKKKKK THATTTTTTTT

If you shine too bright - let emmmm fu**in burn 🔥 babe.

This is where we step into our dark feminine and OWN our power and intensity.

So yes building your dream body is for YOU — but be mindful of that subconscious.

Step into your power; your radiance and claim it — because while there may be shadows // you will inspire the right women to shine bright and take up space alongside you.

Did this land for you?

02/01/2026

January was a lot of shedding and still is ~

The grief & sadness has come in waves 🌊 along side excitement for what’s to come and gratitude for what is already here 🤍

January was a stabilizing and reflecting month. It was really leaning into my social wellness (thank God for girlfriends & family right?) , personal wellness & also really solidifying what I want to build for the next 3-5 years.

This month I:

✨ Dropped my sister off at college
✨ Unpacked 65% of apartment w my mom
✨ Started a Substack 👀 and made new connections on there
✨ Stayed consistent with podcast 🎙️ & even hosted one of our clients
✨ Trained up our new hire who is crushing it
✨ Got back into Pilates 🤭
✨ Continuing to heal my gut 🦠 and really deepening my why within health & finess. Things are shifting for me. I’m craving deeper healing and meaning in my work and I think everything I’ve been navigating within my own emotional / mental health and gut/nervous system issues is moving me there.

February my intention isn’t any huge accomplishments - it’s just to be present in each moment, to be full of gratitude 🙏🏽 and to lean on my lifestyle systems for structure & support in my health 🌱 and fitness 💪

I move to D.R. In 6 weeks and my birthday is in 4 / we turn 28 and let the Saturn Return 🪐 begin … 👀

Cheers to Feb 🥂!!

01/30/2026

🚨 READ ME: Let me guess.
You “go on a diet,” lose some weight, feel hopeful…
then the second you stop, it all comes back.

But not overnight… SNEAKILY… over a year or 2 and you’re back in same spot.

ITS FKN FRUSTRATING SND U DESERVE BETTER!!!!

That’s not because you failed.
It’s because fat loss isn’t just the diet.
And when I say diet, I mean a calorie deficit.

If you don’t know what to do before the deficit
and after the deficit,
you will keep cycling the same 10–20 lbs forever.

Here’s how fat loss actually sticks 👇

PHASE 1: PRIME 🔥 (before you cut)
This is where most women already mess it up.

You’re under-eating.
Eyeballing.
“Eating healthy” but not enough.

So your body is stressed, your metabolism is suppressed, and fat loss feels harder than it should.

In PRIME, we reverse that.

✨ You feel more energized
✨ Hunger calms down
✨ Workouts stop feeling like death
✨ Your body finally feels responsive again

You’re not cutting yet.
You’re teaching your body it’s safe to let go.

PHASE 2: THE DEFICIT ⚖️ (the diet)
Now fat loss actually works.

Macros are intentional.
Training has structure.
Progress is predictable.

✨ The scale moves without panic
✨ You lean out without burning out
✨ Muscle stays, fat comes off
✨ Confidence builds because you know what you’re doing

This is where effort finally turns into visible results.

PHASE 3: THE EXIT STRATEGY 🚪 (where results are locked in)
This is the phase no one teaches—and why most women gain it back.

Here, you learn how to come out of a deficit without fear.

✨ Calories go up without weight rebound
✨ Food freedom returns without spiraling
✨ Your new body feels normal, not temporary
✨ Consistency becomes identity

This is how fat loss becomes permanent.

This is the Fit Body Frequency Framework —
the exact client success model 300+ women have used to:
• drop 20+ lbs
• reverse PCOS symptoms
• build muscle in their dream body
• rewire habits for food freedom + confidence

If you’re done repeating the same cycle,
book a free 10-minute clarity call.

You don’t need more discipline.
You need the right sequence — and a body that trusts the process.

01/29/2026

☀️ SUMMER IS AROUND THE CORNER BABE — Let’s LEAN INTO this winter energy to REWIRE NOW so you’re not REBOUNDING LATER.

Manifesting isn’t meditating on the couch and waking up 20 lbs lighter.

Your body changes when your identity, habits, and actions align.

🧚‍♀️ Here’s how it WORKSSSSS ⬇️

1️⃣ IDENTITYYY IS THE CORE 🪞 SELF CONCEPT

Your brain follows what feels familiar.
Stop asking “what should I do?”
Ask “what does she do by default?”

Action: choose ONE standard (ex: protein before anything else) and repeat it daily. Identity is built through behavior.

2️⃣ REWIRE HABIS (with nueroscience 🧠)

• Replace, don’t resist: same trigger, new response (water, protein, walk).
• Pre-decide: fewer decisions = less self-sabotage.
• Emotion tag: after aligned choices, label the feeling (“proud,” “strong”). The brain repeats rewarded behaviors.

3️⃣ Aligned action still matters
Manifestation needs math.
Calories. Protein. Structured training. No guessing.

4️⃣ Systems > motivation
Meal structure. Workout schedule. Weekend rules.
Repetition → identity → results.

This is the core of our client success model: the Fit Body Frequency Framework —
Where we fuse mindset + neuroscience + nutrition + training to MAKE UR DREAM BODY GOALS a reality 💁🏽‍♀️ ✨

Follow for more. ✅
Share this if it clicked. ✈️ 🤭

01/27/2026

You’ve heard of macros…
…but it sounded complicated, annoying, or “too much,”
so you told yourself you’d just eat a little better and eyeball it.

You’ve seen other people say that works for them, right?
Cool.
But let me ask you something—
how has it worked for you?

When you look in the mirror…
Does it match the results you want?
Or are you stuck in that in-between place where you’re trying but nothing’s really changing?

Here’s the truth no one explains well:
Macros aren’t about restriction.
They’re about clarity.

Tracking macros shows you:
• why fat loss keeps stalling
• where you’re under-eating protein without realizing it
• how “pretty healthy” still turns into maintenance
• what your body actually responds to

It removes the guessing.
It stops the mental gymnastics.
It turns effort into measurable progress.

And no—you’re not meant to track forever.
Macros are a tool, not a life sentence.
You use them to build awareness, structure, and consistency…
then you graduate into eating intuitively with results.

That’s how you stop starting over.
That’s how your mirror finally reflects the work you’re putting in.

If you’re ready to stop eyeballing and start seeing change,
comment “MACROS” and I’ll send you our Foodie’s Guide to Fat Loss 🍽️🔥

Eat the foods you love.
Lose the fat.
Know exactly what you’re doing—and why it works.

01/26/2026

If I took away your coffee and pre-workout… would you still have the energy for the gym and your day?

If the answer is absolutely the f**k not — we need to look at your nutrition and your nervous system. ⚠️

Because scrolling on the couch feeling paralyzed isn’t a motivation issue.
It’s a fuel issue.

Here’s the science nobody explains clearly 👇
When you stay low-carb for too long, your body adapts by:
• down-regulating thyroid output
• increasing cortisol to keep blood sugar stable
• relying on stress hormones instead of glucose for energy

Translation?
You’re not “lazy.”
You’re running on fumes and stimulants.

So you:
• drag yourself to the gym
• slam pre-workout to feel alive
• maybe crush the lift
• then crash hard after

That’s not discipline.
That’s borrowed energy.

And no — your dream body is not going to be manifested through burnout.

Here’s the nuance 👇
I’m not anti low-carb.
Many of our clients do great with low-carb temporarily.

But the women who feel stuck?
They have big goals…
and zero strategy to support the output they expect from their bodies.

Low-carb works when it’s cycled, fueled, and paired with:
• intentional refeeds
• training days that match fuel availability
• nervous system support (not just breathwork — actual nutrition)

Those “freaky strong days” you miss?
They don’t come from more caffeine.
They come from adequate glycogen + a regulated stress response.

If your energy only exists in a scoop…
your body isn’t failing you —
it’s asking for a smarter plan.

Follow for more no-BS nutrition + training strategy that actually supports the life and body you’re building. 🔥✨

01/26/2026

The downfall of the high achieving woman is she thinks she can DO IT ALL.

From one go getter to another — you absolutely CAN — but NOT with YOU as the sacrifice.

The problem is — you’ve been unconsciously or consciously making your own heath and nervous system the sacrifice to your goals and desires.

Pushing hard
Setting high expectations
Only to burnout

OR reel everything back to where you’re not even making the progress you want.

So you start looking into nervous system regulation and all this stress management stuff & I’m so glad you are but…

Without PUTTING YOURSELF FIRST - none of that does anything.

Because putting yourself first means:

🍲 Makinf sure you eat your lunch even if you’re not “hungry” rn because you know if you don’t, it’ll hit you like a bus 🚌 later on

💻 Knowing when to put the laptop or phone 📲 DOWN and set boundaries within your work.

🚫🙅‍♀️ Telling people no and letting that be a full sentence.

It’s so much more than just tracking your macros - it’s a complete shedding of who you’ve been up until this point that has warranted the same cycles of really wanting your Goa and burning out.

Because manifesting you dream body doesn’t have to require burnout when you actually have systems, structures, boundaries & sacred routines in place that support not only your fat loss 🔥 but you nervous system and mental health as well.

If this landed for you let me know ⬇️

With love,
Coach Lex.

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