02/12/2026
There’s something I want to share from my heart today 💛
Many of you know me as the person who answers the phone 📞, shows up, helps when I can, and tries to be there for everyone. That has always been who I am. But this year, I’m choosing to focus on me 🌱
The last few years have been the hardest season of my life. Walking through TWO childhood cancer journeys with Alec and Aden 🎗️ changed me forever. There were days I didn’t know how I would keep smiling, how I would keep going, or how I would hold everything together 💔 Some days, I still don’t know how I do.
I had expectations of who would be there during those moments… and some people weren’t. And that hurt. But I’ve learned something important: healing means letting go of expectations and protecting your peace 🕊️
If you’ve reached out and I didn’t respond right away, please know it was never from a lack of love 🤍 I respond on my time, when I have the emotional space to do so. Surviving the hardest chapter of my life has changed my capacity, and that’s okay.
Toxicity doesn’t live in my life anymore 🚫
Peace does ✨ Healing does 💫 Growth does 🌸
I’m pouring into my mental health 🧠, my children 👨👩👧👦, and this journey of healing. Part of that healing is sharing our story and using social media to help others who may be walking through their own storms 🌧️➡️🌈
Yes, my children survived, and I thank God every day for that 🙏 But survival doesn’t erase the trauma, the fear, or the emotional weight that remains. Many families don’t get the outcome we did, and that reality stays with me 💛
I’ve never used this space to speak negatively about anyone. I truly believe you can always find a way forward, even when the road feels impossible 🚶♀️✨
Tomorrow can be better 🌅 But today, take care of you first. Your mental health matters 💛
If you’re on this journey with me, I hope you’ll continue to follow, engage, and walk beside us as we heal and grow together 🤍