03/03/2026
Feeling the Virgo full moon/eclipse feels tonight.
This is a profound moment of release. In fact it feels a bit like closing a door and saying good bye to a version of myself who no longer exists.
This doesnāt feel scary.
It feels liberating.
While there is a bit of grief for the girl I once was who had no choice but to be strong, who had to make insanely hard choices not only for herself but for others, and who felt like she died a million internal deaths along the wayā¦.tonight I honor her. Her courage. Her pain. Her mistakes. Her story.
Along with the grief, there is a relief settling in. The girl who powered through is now the woman who doesnāt have to, who chooses not to.
No more fighting to be heard. My voice matters and those who can or need to hear it, will.
No more fighting to exist. Living and thriving gently, with purpose, grace and good humor and inclusion are my guiding principles.
No more proving I deserve to take up space. I am wholly myself. Love me or not, I will not shrink myself to make others comfortable. I may, however, coax you into taking up more space than what you have been comfortable with.
No more hyper-vigilant watching and waiting. I am safe. A peaceful life does not have to be earned.
Time to soften.
Time for chosen ease.
Time to dance in flowy skirts along moss covered and sunlight dappled paths.
Time to allow myself to emerge from underneath all I thought I had to be.
Time to rise.
Time to be free.
Join meā¦. š