Therapist Vaj Thoj Cindy

Therapist Vaj Thoj Cindy I’m a mental health therapist by profession. I am also a mother, a wife, a sister, a daughter, and a human at heart with human experiences.

I hope to use this page to share my knowledge of all that I learn in all facets of my life.

Alysa Liu won gold! 🥇🥇🥇What’s even more amazing about her story is that she began ice skating as a young child and was a...
02/20/2026

Alysa Liu won gold! 🥇🥇🥇

What’s even more amazing about her story is that she began ice skating as a young child and was a solid skater. She did things that other American women figure skaters could not do at the time.

But at 16, she announced her retirement from the sport. I remembered reading that and how sad I felt along with so many followers of women’s figure skating.

But guess what she did? She was a teenager. She hung out with friends. She went to college. Alysa led a life outside of elite figure skating.

And then she returned. Her coach tried to convince her to not come back, not because he didn’t believe in her, but because of how much he cared for her. Yet she persisted.

She came back with her own rules, her own parameters, her own boundaries. Alysa kindly told her father that he was not allowed to be part of her coaching team anymore. She said “Nobody is going to tell me what I can and can’t eat”.

And then she skated out onto the biggest competitions in figure skating, and won with sheer love and joy for the sport.

Alysa Liu treated her sport like her art, and she skated to her own tunes.

After she won gold earlier today, she said that she wants to raise awareness about mental health in sports, and she is most joyful about human connection.

What’s the lesson of her story?

From the lens of this mental health therapist, it’s the power of focusing on and nourishing your mental health. When we nourish our mental health, we nourish our overall health, physically, emotionally, mentally, relationally, and spiritually.

Congratulations to Alysa Liu!!!! This was so well-deserved.

Happy International Play Therapy Week, Everyone! I had to jump on this AI trend, and I love it!! Hope everyone is having...
02/04/2026

Happy International Play Therapy Week, Everyone! I had to jump on this AI trend, and I love it!! Hope everyone is having a wonderfully playful week!!

It’s called training for my digital play therapy clients!
01/31/2026

It’s called training for my digital play therapy clients!

01/27/2026
It’s called therapy research. 😄😄😄😄
01/21/2026

It’s called therapy research. 😄😄😄😄

01/14/2026

Each person has a unique experience and history that needs to be honored. Mind and body stress, emotional overwhelm, anxiety, and depression are all signs you have been experiencing too much or too little of something without adequate resourcing in order to heal. Therapy is a space to learn about po...

Emotional neglect is a real experience, and we need to talk more about it. “I had a great childhood. Nothing bad happene...
01/09/2026

Emotional neglect is a real experience, and we need to talk more about it.

“I had a great childhood. Nothing bad happened, but I don’t know why I feel like this.”

Maybe it’s not about what happened. Maybe it’s about what didn’t happen.

I encourage you to read my piece to learn more.

The Invisible Wounds of Emotional Neglect: What It Is, How It Happens, and What Can Help by Cindy Vang | Jan 9, 2026 | Anxiety, Children & Teens, Depression, Family Therapy, Parenting, Relationships, Trauma | 0 comments For the past few months, I have been doing a deep dive into the world of emotion...

It’s 10:23pm. What did you just do?I just paid for the first training of Training Season 2026. Let’s go!!!!!!!!
01/08/2026

It’s 10:23pm. What did you just do?

I just paid for the first training of Training Season 2026. Let’s go!!!!!!!!

I love being a mom. It’s a role that I hold to the highest priority, but it can be difficult and stressful some days.And...
01/07/2026

I love being a mom. It’s a role that I hold to the highest priority, but it can be difficult and stressful some days.

And today was one of those days where one child wanted to tell me something about their sibling and then the sibling is now mad and wants to tell me something that child did.

Then I have a house full of angry children and siblings.

So we sat down for a lesson, summarized in 3 points, and I’m sharing it with all of you.

In my house, there are no snitches or tattletales. But if something isn’t safe, we say something because we’re a family, and family always shows up for each other.

Happy Hmong New Year to each and everyone of you!The Hmong have lived in America for 50 years now, and I am astonished t...
12/27/2025

Happy Hmong New Year to each and everyone of you!

The Hmong have lived in America for 50 years now, and I am astonished to see our growth in that time frame. In all areas of life, I have witnessed the growth of my people. From Olympians to farmers, from educators to doctors, from actors to activists, and many more, it has been an inspiring experience to say the least.

Of those 50, I have contributed 39 years, and of those 50, my daughter has contributed 7, and there is only more to come.

My wishes for the Hmong American community as we go into our 51st year is for hope and healing, recovery and joy, growth and accountability, and underneath it all, prosperity and resiliency.

May we continue to be all that we were meant to be, one generation after another.

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Fresno, CA

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+15598259700

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https://www.threeoakswellnesscollaborative.co

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