06/26/2025
When war, natural disasters, or human suffering fill the news, our instinct is often to shield our children. But kids are perceptive — they overhear conversations, catch glimpses of headlines, and pick up on our emotional cues. What they need most is not perfect explanations, but a calm, honest, and compassionate guide.
Here are a few ways to begin:
1. Be the calm in the storm.
Children take emotional cues from the adults around them. If you're anxious, they will be too. Take time to regulate yourself before starting the conversation.
2. Be honest, but developmentally appropriate.
You don’t have to explain everything. Offer simple, clear facts that match their age and curiosity. "There are people far away who are hurting and scared because of fighting, and that makes a lot of people sad and worried."
3. You can grieve multiple things at once — and so can your child.
It’s okay to name the complexity: we can grieve injustice and violence, while also grieving the loss of innocent lives. We can be heartbroken for all who are hurting, even when we don’t fully understand every side. Helping children hold space for more than one truth builds empathy and resilience.
4. Listen more than you talk.
Ask what they've heard and how they feel about it. Don’t assume they’re confused — they might be forming their own understanding, and your job is to gently guide and clarify.
5. Reassure them of their safety and support.
Let them know they are safe with you, and that there are people in the world working hard to help those affected. Routines, affection, and your presence go a long way in helping kids feel grounded.
6. Keep routines steady.
Consistency helps children feel secure, especially in uncertain times.
7. Show them how to care.
Whether it's through prayer, drawing pictures, or helping in small ways, give children an outlet for compassion. It reminds them that even in big, scary moments, love is still active.
You don’t need all the answers. You just need to show up with your heart open.
If your child is showing signs of fear or distress and you’d like support, I’m here to help.
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