17/02/2026
‼️Domestic Violence Isn’t Always Hitting
Imagine your abuser realizing that you reference the abuse he had ( still ) caused during your relationship and has the audacity to say “how am I supposed to get a job with that online”? 
Am I wrong to think maybe he should’ve thought about that before ?
Not to mention what happened to all of the talk if “You’re just too sensitive, you were never abused”!
Constantly pointing out how he never hit me, so I wasn’t abused by him.
Sometimes I would’ve rather been punched in the face. At least the bruises would be gone, unlike his words that still echo in my mind while I’m trying to go to sleep.
So if he never abused me (well there was that one time he grabbed me by the throat, while I was on the phone with 911 at that, that he still denies even though it’s recorded 🤷♀️ ) what does he have to worry about?
I have to wonder.