03/13/2026
The blame game! đĽľ
Restart. Reset. Refocus. Friday.
How often do we blame other people for the situation weâre in?
Unhappy at work?
âItâs because my boss makes it unbearable.â
Things quiet at home?
âItâs because my partner dismisses everything I say.â
Maybe thereâs some truth in those feelings.
But when blame becomes our focus, we give away our power.
Newsflash. We canât control other people.
Not their reactions.
Not their choices.
Not their behavior.
What we can control is how we respond.
We can decide:
⢠What we tolerate
⢠What boundaries we set
⢠What energy we bring into the room
⢠Whether we allow someone elseâs actions to define our direction
When we stop focusing on whatâs outside our control and start focusing on whatâs within it, something powerful happens.
We move from blame to ownership.
And ownership is where change begins.
So this Friday, take a moment to ask yourself:
Where am I giving my power away through blameâŚ
and what would it look like to take it back?