03/11/2026
Elizabeth here, I went through a sad experience recently and wanted to share some thoughts about it.
Just over a week ago, I had to put one of my dogs down. He was injured in an accident at the farm. Not only was it sad, but it was traumatic for him and me.
Thankfully, it was a short trip to an emergency vet, and they were great and gave him the most peaceful end we could.
I am sharing not to tell this story, but to discuss a more general experience of loss and end-of-life decisions.
We cannot control everything - I have spent countless hours going through all the "what ifs" from that morning. But the truth is, accidents happen, and as careful and planned as our lives can be, this is a sad reality.
What we can do is put in place end-of-life plans. What procedures will or won't you do for an animal? Do you have a ready list of veterinary clinics to contact in an emergency? Do you have a list of transport options for your horse, if necessary?
Your regular veterinarian is a great resource for creating these plans. Have a discussion, what is reasonable for your animal at this point in their life? What are the local options if your veterinarian is not available?
If you have an older animal that is getting close to the end, please, please, please - have these discussions with your vet, your family, the barn owner, your trainer, everyone involved in the decision making. The more thought put into the decision, the easier it is on all involved.
Everyone has heard - better one day too early than a moment too late. I cannot stress enough how different it is to say goodbye in a quiet, planned situation than in an emergency.
I have worked with animals my entire life. I have had up to 7 dogs, 9 cats, and managed the care of over 30 horses all at the same time. I have been present for many goodbyes, my own animals and clients, friends, and family members' animals.
I have dealt with emergencies.
I have waited too long to let them go.
I have experienced some remarkably peaceful and gentle farewells.
Nothing can be done to make it less sad. Saying goodbye is heartbreaking; they each leave an empty space in our hearts when they go.
We can plan, and sometimes we can facilitate a goodbye without trauma, without unnecessary suffering, without panic. You will have more time to process, time to feed the extra treats, to give the extra pets and kisses.
Thank you in advance for the condolences.
Although I did not get the best goodbye, I am so grateful for the relationship I had with the tiny - all 6.5 lbs of him, monster dog! Pearly was truly an experience 💔
Be fully present with and enjoy your loved ones, human and animal.