12/28/2025
Most people don’t hit their health goals year after year because they keep using the same lever over and over:
Try harder.
Be more disciplined.
Get serious this time.
And for a bit… it might work.
Until stress goes up, energy drops, and old patterns quietly take over again.
If that cycle rings a bell, I wrote something this week you might want to read.
It’s called “Why Trying Harder Doesn’t Work.”
Not because effort is bad, it’s necessary...
but because effort collapses the moment your system goes into protection mode.
The article explains why you can know exactly what to do and still not do it — without being broken, lazy, or undisciplined.
If you’ve ever said:
“I just can’t stay consistent,”
“I always fall off,”
“I know better, but I still do it,”..this will likely feel uncomfortably accurate.
Because the truth is, if trying harder worked, it would’ve worked by now.
Sometimes seeing the real problem is what finally stops the loop.
Read it. Link is in my bio under Substack