11/22/2025
After decades of being a horse trainer and riding instructor I have watched, thousands of times, the effect horses have on humans. It always amazes me how just by being near these incredible animals creates a deep shift in us. Children and adults would open up while grooming and just start talking about whatever it was that was on their mind, the day's stresses, what happened at home, work, school or even tragic events that were many years past. We used to joke at the barn that it's our therapy, well there's truth there.
It's been a long time goal of mine to develop a way to help others with the use of horses. A very dear friend of mine, and fellow horse woman was taken from us by domestic violence years ago. Since then I've felt drawn to help women in abusive situations and others who may benefit from some barn time have a bit of peace with the help of horses.
Watch this page for updates on upcoming programs featuring my horses, reiki and this shared energy.
1. People drawn to animals have brain patterns that combine high empathy with calmer stress responses. Their nervous system stops releasing excess cortisol faster, which means they recover from pressure differently from the average person.
2. When you touch an animal, the body immediately lowers cortisol. The mind reads it as a signal of safety, like being near someone who will not judge you. This is the only social space where masks fall off without effort.
3. Neurobiologists found their mirror neurons fire stronger. They pick up subtle cues, tone shifts, microgestures. That same sensitivity that helps them feel a cat’s unease also lets them sense hidden tension in a friend who says “I’m fine.”
4. This reaction is not sentimentality, it’s hardware. Cross-species empathy means their brain is coded for care, and it calms chaos around them. That’s why they restore harmony in stressful groups faster, often without saying a word.
5. Stroking a pet activates the same brain region as deep meditation. Breathing steadies, heart rhythm slows, attention sharpens. It’s real therapy in motion, using touch instead of tablets.
- Mitty B
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