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11/10/2025

11/06/2025

20 Key Traits of Honest People

11/06/2025

It doesn’t look toxic at first… until you notice the 7 subtle signs of emotional manipulation. 😶‍🧩 Link in comments 👇

11/06/2025

Ever wondered why your child can go from calm to overwhelmed in what feels like seconds?
It’s not 'overreacting'. It’s the limbic system doing its job.

The limbic system is the part of the brain responsible for emotions, threat responses, memory, and connection. When it senses danger (real or perceived), it takes charge. Logical thinking steps back. This is why reasoning with a distressed child often doesn’t work in the moment.

Understanding this changes everything.

When we support emotional regulation, we’re not just teaching a skill — we’re helping a young person’s brain learn how to move from alarm back to safety. That’s connection. That’s co-regulation. That’s where calming strategies actually start to work.

If you’re supporting a child through big feelings, meltdowns, anxiety, or tricky behaviour, understanding the limbic system is foundational.

Our The Child Brain Explained Toolkit breaks this down clearly, with visuals, strategies, scripts, activities, and parent handouts you can use straight away.Link in comments below ⬇️ or via Linktree Shop in Bio.

11/05/2025

Worries are part of growing up. As children learn about the world, their brains are still working out what feels safe, what feels uncertain, and how to make sense of big feelings.

This visual shows common worries by age — to help young people (and the adults supporting them) see that many worries are developmentally normal, not signs of something 'wrong'. These are common patterns, not fixed rules. Every child’s worries are shaped by their environment, temperament and experiences.

We stop at around age 14 because, from this point on, worries become more individual and tied to identity, friendships, belonging and life experiences. Support at this stage is less about reassurance and more about connection, curiosity and co-regulation.

If your child is feeling overwhelmed, or if worries are starting to take over everyday life, our When Worries Take Over Toolkit offers step-by-step scripts, support strategies and gentle, brain-based tools you can use right away — link in comments below ⬇️ or via Linktree Shop in Bio.

11/05/2025

The part of the brain responsible for planning, reasoning, impulse control, empathy and problem-solving doesn’t arrive fully formed. The prefrontal cortex develops slowly, in stages, over years.

So when a child is overwhelmed, impulsive, or struggling to make 'healthy choices', it isn’t that they won’t — it’s often that they can’t yet.

This visual walks through the development of the rational brain across childhood and adolescence, helping us understand what is realistic to expect, and when support matters most.

For deeper guidance on brain development and how to respond in-the-moment with calm, connection and boundaries, see The Child Brain Toolkit - link in comments below ⬇️ or via Linktree Shop in Bio.

11/03/2025

Gonadarche marks the biological beginning of puberty — when the te**es start to mature and produce testosterone. For most boys, this happens between ages 9 and 14.

Alongside physical changes, this stage can bring surges in energy, irritability, sensitivity, or confusion — all signs that the brain and body are adjusting to new hormone patterns.
Supporting emotional regulation through these shifts helps boys feel grounded and understood as they grow.

There’s a separate post for girls — as their timeline and hormonal changes begin earlier.

Explore our Managing Big Feelings Toolkit for practical ways to guide emotional regulation through puberty and beyond. Link in comments below ⬇️ or via our Linktree Shop in Bio.

FOLLOW for a child friendly explanation of gonadarche to use with young people.

11/03/2025

Today’s Voice of the Child post comes from a 13-year-old boy — exploring what emotional regulation really feels like at this age.

We’ll be sharing separate versions for boys and girls, because by early adolescence, emotional regulation starts to look and feel different.
Hormonal changes, brain development, and social pressures all shape how young people experience and express big feelings.

The girl's perspective was posted earlier today.

Both remind us that behind every reaction is a child learning how to feel safe with their emotions.

FOLLOW for more on the topic of GONDARCHE (puberty) this coming week.

You can explore more tools to support this stage in our Managing Big Feelings Toolkit, available via link in comments below ⬇️ or via Linktree Shop in Bio.

11/03/2025

Today’s Voice of the Child post comes from a 13-year-old girl — exploring what emotional regulation really feels like at this age.

We’ll be sharing separate versions for boys and girls, because by early adolescence, emotional regulation starts to look and feel different.
Hormonal changes, brain development, and social pressures all shape how young people experience and express big feelings.

The girl’s voice is here this morning — the boy’s perspective will follow later today.
Both remind us that behind every reaction is a child learning how to feel safe with their emotions.

FOLLOW for more on the topic of GONDARCHE (puberty) this coming week.

You can explore more tools to support this stage in our Managing Big Feelings Toolkit, available via link in comments below ⬇️ or via Linktree Shop in Bio.

11/03/2025

11/03/2025

Gonadarche marks the biological beginning of puberty — when the ovaries start to mature and produce oestrogen. For most girls, this happens between ages 8 and 13.

It’s the stage where body changes begin and emotions can start to feel bigger, faster, and harder to manage.
Helping young people understand what’s happening in their bodies (and why moods might shift) builds self-awareness and emotional safety.

There’s a separate post for boys — as their timeline and hormonal process differ slightly.

You can find support for this stage in our Managing Big Feelings Toolkit – created to help families navigate emotional regulation through puberty and beyond. Link in comments below ⬇️ or via our Linktree Shop in Bio.

FOLLOW for a child friendly version created to use with your young people later today.

10/18/2025