Nest and Nurture,LLC

Nest and Nurture,LLC I offer Lactation Consultation (I am a CLC), and Birth Doula services. I am a trained Professional Doula

11/28/2025

"The holidays can be a huge stress for families, especially with babies. The anxiety filled messages I've been receiving have been heartbreaking to say the least.⠀

Mommas feeling like they HAVE to explain, appease, comply, do what their family is telling them basically. And it's just not true.⠀

Please do not feel like you have to change your style of parenting to make your family, or anyone else for that matter, comfortable. ⠀

You are the momma. That is your baby.⠀

You don't have to pass baby around, or force your toddler or child to huge someone or sit on their lap. Babies and children don't learn trust or independence by being forced or pushed.⠀

Babies being passed around is extremely overstimulating for them. There are also times where relatives may try to soothe baby when in fact they need to nurse. (See below)⠀

Please, for the love of God, do not try and skip or stretch feeds....mastitis and clogs skyrocket around the holidays because we are usually so busy, trying to get everything done, be everywhere, do everything. Don't do it. Set a timer/alarm on your phone for every couple hours. Have your spouse or another family member remind you. Anything. Just keep nursing or expressing OFTEN. For your supply and for your health.⠀

No, you don't have to bring bottles so family can feed the baby. (Unless you want to, but you should be expressing in place of a feed) And no they don't HAVE to learn how to drink formula. (Yes that's a real question I received.)"

Words and photo 📸 credit marissathemilkmom

11/28/2025

Pass the Gravy, not the baby!
Happy thanksgiving! 🍁🦃

It's OK if your little turkey would rather stick close to you this holiday season!
"Babies are people, not toys.
You do not have to "share" your baby just because an adult feels put out, and wants to hold them.
You do not have to put up with your baby fussing...Someone can sit next to you and interact with baby while leaving them in their comfort zone.
Boundaries are healthy, manipulation is not; firmness does not equal rudeness, so don't allow others to put guilt on you for holding your baby." ~Jody, mom of 5.
Photo 📸and word credit La Leche League of Hampton Roads

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11/28/2025

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In 2008, Katie Hinde stood in a California primate lab staring at hundreds of milk samples. Male babies got richer milk. Females got more volume. Science had missed half the conversation.
She was a postdoctoral researcher at the California National Primate Research Center, analyzing milk from rhesus macaque mothers. For months, she'd been measuring fat content, protein levels, mineral concentrations. The data showed something she hadn't expected: monkey mothers were producing completely different milk depending on whether they'd given birth to sons or daughters.
Sons received milk with higher concentrations of fat and protein—more energy per ounce. Daughters received more milk overall, with higher calcium levels. The biological recipe wasn't universal. It was customized.
Hinde ran the numbers again. The pattern held across dozens of mother-infant pairs. This wasn't random variation. This was systematic.
She thought about what she'd been taught in graduate school. Milk was nutrition. Calories, proteins, fats. A delivery system for energy. But if milk was just fuel, why would it differ based on the baby's s*x? Why would mothers unconsciously adjust the formula?
The answer shifted everything: milk wasn't passive. It was a message.
Hinde had arrived at this question through an unusual path. She'd earned her bachelor's degree in anthropology from the University of Washington, then completed her PhD at UCLA in 2008. While most lactation research focused on dairy cattle or developing infant formulas, Hinde wanted to understand what milk actually did in primate mothers and babies.
At UC Davis, she had access to the largest primate research center in the United States. She could collect milk samples at different stages of lactation, track infant development, measure maternal characteristics. She could ask questions that had never been systematically studied.
Like: why do young mothers produce milk with more stress hormones?
Hinde discovered that first-time monkey mothers produced milk with fewer calories but higher concentrations of cortisol than experienced mothers. Babies who consumed this high-cortisol milk grew faster but were more nervous and less confident. The milk wasn't just feeding the baby's body—it was programming the baby's temperament.
Or: how does milk respond when babies get sick?
Working with researchers who studied infant illness, Hinde found that when babies developed infections, their mothers' milk changed within hours. The white blood cell count in the milk increased dramatically—from around 2,000 cells per milliliter to over 5,000 during acute illness. Macrophage counts quadrupled. The levels returned to normal once the baby recovered.
The mechanism was remarkable: when a baby nurses, small amounts of the baby's saliva travel back through the ni**le into the mother's breast tissue. That saliva contains information about the baby's immune status. If the baby is fighting an infection, the mother's body detects the antigens and begins producing specific antibodies, which then flow back to the baby through the milk.
It was a dialogue. The baby's body communicated its needs. The mother's body responded.
Hinde started documenting everything. She collected milk from over 250 rhesus macaque mothers across more than 700 sampling events. She measured cortisol, adiponectin, epidermal growth factor, transforming growth factors. She tracked which babies gained weight faster, which were more exploratory, which were more cautious.
She realized she was mapping a language that had been invisible.
In 2011, Hinde joined Harvard as an assistant professor. She began writing about her findings, but she also noticed something troubling: almost nobody was studying human breast milk with the same rigor applied to other biological systems. When she searched publication databases, she found twice as many studies on erectile dysfunction as on breast milk composition.
The world's first food—the substance that had nourished every human who ever lived—was scientifically neglected.
She started a blog: "Mammals Suck...Milk!" The title was deliberately provocative. Within a year, it had over a million views. Parents, clinicians, researchers started asking questions. What bioactive compounds are in human milk? How does milk from mothers of premature babies differ from milk produced for full-term infants? Can we use this knowledge to improve formulas or help babies in NICUs?
Hinde's research expanded. She studied how milk changes across the day (fat concentration peaks mid-morning). She investigated how foremilk differs from hindmilk (babies with bigger appetites who nurse longer get higher-fat milk at the end of feeding). She examined how maternal characteristics—age, parity, health status, social rank—shaped milk composition.
In 2013, she created March Mammal Madness, a science outreach event that became an annual tradition in hundreds of classrooms. In 2014, she co-authored "Building Babies." In 2016, she received the Ehrlich-Koldovsky Early Career Award from the International Society for Research in Human Milk and Lactation for making outstanding contributions to the field.
By 2017, when she delivered her TED talk, she could articulate what she'd discovered across a decade of research: breast milk is food, medicine, and signal. It builds the baby's body and fuels the baby's behavior. It carries bacteria that colonize the infant gut, hormones that influence metabolism, oligosaccharides that feed beneficial microbes, immune factors that protect against pathogens.
More than 200 varieties of oligosaccharides alone. The baby can't even digest them—they exist to nourish the right community of gut bacteria, preventing harmful pathogens from establishing.
The composition is as unique as a fingerprint. No two mothers produce identical milk. No two babies receive identical nutrition.
In 2020, Hinde appeared in the Netflix docuseries "Babies," explaining her findings to a mass audience. She'd moved to Arizona State University, where she now directs the Comparative Lactation Lab. Her research continues to reveal new dimensions of how milk shapes infant outcomes from the first hours of life through childhood.
She works on precision medicine applications—using knowledge of milk bioactives to help the most fragile infants in neonatal intensive care units. She consults on formula development, helping companies create products that better replicate the functional properties of human milk for mothers who face obstacles to breastfeeding.
The implications extend beyond individual families. Understanding milk informs public health policy, workplace lactation support, clinical recommendations. It reveals how maternal characteristics, environmental conditions, and infant needs interact in real time through a biological messaging system that's been evolving for 200 million years—longer than dinosaurs.
Katie Hinde didn't just study milk. She revealed that the most ancient form of nourishment was also the most sophisticated. What science had treated as simple nutrition was actually a dynamic, responsive communication between two bodies—a conversation that shapes human development one feeding at a time.

11/24/2025

To really be a doula is this!

11/22/2025

We are looking at having to make some drastic decisions come January 2026.

We may be closing our doors next year. I can no longer afford to keep all the licenses, insurance, etc going without paying clients. I will continue to offer private services for those who cannot afford to pay, but I cannot afford to keep the business up and running as is on pro-bono clients. If nothing changes, we will be shutting down March 1, 2026.

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11/18/2025
In most cases, Gestational Diabetes CAN be controlled by diet...and checking your own glucose levels daily is IMPORTANT ...
11/14/2025

In most cases, Gestational Diabetes CAN be controlled by diet...and checking your own glucose levels daily is IMPORTANT regardless of whether you are diet or medication controlled....any physician who advises you NOT to....should be replaced.

🤰Being diagnosed with gestational diabetes doesn't necessarily mean you will have diabetes forever. Although women who had diabetes before pregnancy are more likely to retain diabetes or develop diabetes later on, most cases of gestational diabetes resolve after birth.

AND Gestiational Diabetes CAN be diet controlled in many cases (not all) and yes...you SHOULD test your own glucose leve...
11/14/2025

AND Gestiational Diabetes CAN be diet controlled in many cases (not all) and yes...you SHOULD test your own glucose levels daily....fasting, 1 hr and 2 hour readings will help you control your sugars and protect yourself and your baby.

🤰Being diagnosed with gestational diabetes doesn't necessarily mean you will have diabetes forever. Although women who had diabetes before pregnancy are more likely to retain diabetes or develop diabetes later on, most cases of gestational diabetes resolve after birth.

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