22/10/2021
•back in action•
I’ve been going through a lot lately & have felt the fear of “who am I to act like I know anything when my life feels so off?”
I have realized that I was convincing myself I had to have everything figured out. The reality is wellness & living an integrated & holistic life is a constantly evolving process. It’s not about perfection. It’s about consistency, honesty, compassion, & presence.
So here I am, showing up in all my imperfection. With this in mind, I wanted to share a transformation I have experienced over many years.
When I was young & ill, I became livid whenever someone implied that my emotions had an impact on my health. It felt like someone was blaming me for it all, like it was my fault. It has taken me many years to realize 3 essential truths:
1. Our emotional responses do actually influence our health
2. It’s not anyone’s fault, especially if those emotional responses come from childhood programming/trauma
3. It is in our power to make the choice to change & rewrite the story
Right now I’m reading a book by titled “When the Body Says No”. In the book he states “It is a sensitive matter to raise the possibility that the way people have been conditioned to live their lives may contribute to their illness.”
I’ve realized that my purpose is to approach this topic from the perspective of someone who understands it isn’t about fault or blame or shame. I want to help others drop the shame & instead empower them in the revelation.
Your past is not a life sentence. I’m here to help.
Reach out if you’re interested in talking more about one-on-one coaching to help integrate your shadow-self in order to create lasting life style change, from a holistic and deeply human perspective.
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