06/13/2022
This sweet angel made her entrance into the world and it was such a special one. Merrie went through days of early labor only to be welcomed with an unknown covid diagnoses at triage. Both her midwife and hospital staff were amazing at continuing to support her birth plan as she moved into steady active labor despite the unexpected circumstances.
A little back story, Merrie and I knew each other in high school but lost touch after we graduated. When I announced I was a doula she reached out and said she hoped to use me one day! Soon after, she messaged me and said, “I’m pregnant!!!!!!” After we established care, turns out Merrie and Nathan live about 7 houses down from me. The best!
Merrie and Nathan were an incredible team during her labor. She practiced for and prayed over this birth and it showed. We blasted her Christian Hypnobirthing tracks, spoke affirmations over her and Lydia’s life, did a whole lot of counter pressure, supported Merrie physically and emotionally together, worked through techniques for her back labor and nausea, did water therapy, and she dug deep to find the inner strength she was born with to bring her daughter into this world. Once she was pushing, she was laughing and apologizing for being “too short to grab the squat bars” 😂 … she was so collected she didn’t even realize how collected she was 🥲 The whole room was filled with so much joy and laughter. There was such a sweet and calm atmosphere while Lydia was being born and Merrie was in full control. It was so redemptive to see Merrie beaming at the finish line when at the beginning, the unmedicated birth she had prepared for since even before she was pregnant seemed so far away to her. I’ll never forget her utterly shocked face when she pulled Lydia onto her chest and held her with pride! SHE DID THAT 👏🏼
It’s moment like this I will never, ever take for granted being a part of. I spent almost 24 hours with this couple providing labor support but witnessed them transform into all new people 🤍 I’ll forever and always be the blessed one!