Mothered Nature

04/15/2026

He can always decide to be circumcised later in life with adequate pain relief that is denied in infancy. Where he does not have memory of being strapped down to a restraint board so he can go on to have his most sensitive part ripped, then clamped, then cut (often the stripping of the membrane from the head of his p***s is the most agonizing part) his psyche always will. As a baby cries are how he communicates when something is wrong. Then he realizes that isn’t working as nature intended…. so he then escalates to screams. The body remembers. Circumcised boys are often triggered by pain (such as vaccination) far more intensely than intact babies.

Hold him close; that’s all he wants! The world becomes so much scarier if this is how it welcomes him.

When a healthy newborn is subjected to an irreversible procedure, the first question should be simple: who benefits from doing this now instead of letting him decide later? That question alone unsettles the whole idea that this is just standard care.

04/14/2026

Hello Friends!

As you see my name is Brittanie. Be-ing a rather eclectic individual born of the year 1987 the 4th most popular name of that year “simply” didn't do 🙃 You may have seen me on various roads and parks foraging through what some call weeds, but others know to be medicine.

As to why I have come here to make this post. I have been guided towards the potential of the higher callings Life afforded me when things were easier. I need to get back to the real work. I am hoping to find new clientele to support me and my family by supporting you and yours. I have come here to find you 🤗

I was happiest when I provided services meant to honor, support, and empower Wombyn throughout the Childbearing Years and their Feminine Cycles. This looks like:
🌟Fourth Trimester Care of Families by doing a hybrid of both Nannying Services alongside practices which assist Postpartum Healing naturally uplifting outcomes.
🌟 I helped to establish Support Networks preceding their Littlest Being’s Earthside Debut while stocking their freezer and providing Nesting Assistance.
🌟I provided MoonTime Care to Wombyn both preceding their Menstrual Cycle and during it which brings comfort that addresses certain discomfort our body uses to communicate when something is off.
🌟I taught people about anything I knew that allows the Wisdom within Mother Nature that makes Majick happen in any setting.

There has been a lot that has happened to me. It made me lean on the more practical aspects of supporting Families such as Cleaning, Childcare, and Caretaking of High need folks. Well… I have been guided back to doing the work that nourishes my roots. Where I am not against doing such work I have to fulfill my soul by doing the work that brings me to life. I hope to find you all 🫶

04/02/2026

We all deserve better

"My husband says me breastfeeding is what ruined our marriage and why we're getting a divorce. That I cared too much for our child and made my husband feel second. I guess it is, I didn't know breastfeeding could do that. I didn't mean to ruin our marriage by breastfeeding."

The client that told me this in our zoom call was calm as she said it. She was matter of fact, resigned, accepting.

By the end of our call, I circled back around to the notion that she ruined her marriage by breastfeeding their child.

"No, you did not ruin your marriage by breastfeeding. Prioritizing the needs of your child that depends on you rather than the wants and desires of the adult you share life with is not what ended your marriage. Your husband acting like a child that was in competition with your actual child is at least half of what ended the relationship."

At least half was being very generous toward him, which he did not deserve.

She started to cry. In the hour we had met she described being pressured for seggs just weeks after giving birth, guilted for sitting and nursing instead of making the grown man food, and shamed for nursing and "ruining" her chest to feed their baby instead of keeping her body as her husband's plaything.

Caring for her baby isn't what ruined her marriage. Her husband (soon to be ex) is what ruined her marriage.

Men who complain to their partners in order to pressure them into stopping caring for their child so that she will prioritize pleasuring them are selfish and immature.

No wonder so many women are fed up.

Thankfully there are men out there that understand being a loving grownup but I don't blame the women that don't want to take the risk of the kind of experience my client had. The male loneliness epidemic is just what some men call the natural consequences of exploiting women and being selfish in relationships so they can avoid accountability and acknowledging that the issue isn't women not wanting to be with them but them being the kind of people nobody would want to be with.

I don't know who needs to hear this but being pressured to perform for a partner isn't love, being manipulated into stepping back from parenting responsibilities to please your partner isn't connection, and feeling alone in parenting when you are partnered while being expected to act as though it has no physical/emotional/mental toll on you is not reasonable partnership.

Sure, sometimes a parent emotionally abandons their partner and becomes overly consumed with caring for their child. Pressure, guilt trips, manipulation, and demands are not the answer. Therapy, coaching, support, and sharing the load are. Often emotional unavailability and overly concerned with childcare is a sign of anxiety and connection and support that is caring and empathetic is more effective in balance being found.

Nobody deserves to be guilt-tripped for feeding and caring for their child.

It doesn't have to be this way. https://martinwebercoaching.com/

03/30/2026

03/29/2026

Thanks Jen!!!

03/21/2026

I will begin making custom Herbal Packs for my fellow humans. It’s something I love to do and i have the means to do so. It would help me to help the collective in a way that feeds the soul.

I will be starting with Herbal Tea’s and Herbal Bath Soaks. Please reach out for further details!

03/08/2025

My babe loves this

03/07/2025

If you’ve been told to just lose weight to manage PCOS—without real guidance on how to nourish your body—you’re not alone. PCOS is a complex hormonal and metabolic condition, not just a weight issue. At its root, PCOS involves insulin resistance, inflammation, and appetite dysregulation, which can lead to cravings, binge eating, and difficulty maintaining a healthy weight—not because of willpower, but because of underlying hormone imbalances.

The good news? Food is one of the most powerful tools for healing PCOS. Research shows that a nutrient-dense, anti-inflammatory, blood sugar-balancing diet can be just as effective—if not more—than medications like metformin in improving symptoms, regulating cycles, and restoring fertility. By focusing on whole, unprocessed, and metabolically supportive foods, you can improve insulin sensitivity, lower testosterone levels, and reduce inflammation.

🌿 Prioritize protein – Poultry, eggs, legumes, and omega-3-rich fish stabilize blood sugar, curb cravings, and lower androgens.

🌿 Add healthy fats – Olive oil, avocados, nuts, and seeds support hormone balance and reduce inflammation.

🌿 Choose slow-burning carbs – Healthful grains like brown rice, millet, oats, quinoa, wild rice, red, pink, or black rice are all great choices. Buckwheat, technically a seed not a grain, may be especially helpful in improving blood sugar balance and reducing insulin resistance. Starchy veggies such as parsnips, potatoes, squash, winter squashes, and sweet potatoes also promote steady energy and insulin regulation.

🌿 Eat more leafy greens – Crucial for gut health, detoxification, and lowering inflammation. Try bok choy, broccoli, broccoli rabe, brussel sprouts, cabbage (all varieties), or cauliflower.

PCOS isn’t one-size-fits-all, which is why understanding the root causes—beyond just diet—matters. You can take charge of your symptoms, energy, and well-being with the right strategies.

PCOS is complex. Healing is possible. The best approach is one that addresses all of the underlying root causes. Learn more in my book, Hormone Intelligence—link in bio. 💛

03/04/2025

So often, women come into my practice asking, “What’s wrong with me?” And on a bad day, hey—I’ve asked myself that question too. We’ve been conditioned to believe that if we feel overwhelmed, exhausted, or emotionally dysregulated, it must mean something is broken in us. That we need to fix it.

So we search.

Another supplement. A new meditation practice. Tweaking our diet. A different morning routine. Because we’ve been taught that the solution is always us doing more, trying harder.

And sure, those things can help. But sometimes, what we really need is to be seen, heard, and held. To have someone regulated and steady sit with us, remind us we’re not alone, and offer safety—not solutions. To have space held for us in a way that allows our nervous system to settle.

The tricky part? If the people we turn to aren’t regulated themselves, we may feel like we can’t get what we need. And this can reinforce trauma. Or we convince ourselves that we don’t deserve to be held in the first place. We push through, hold it all together, tell ourselves we should be able to handle it. But we can’t handle it all alone. We’re not meant to. Which is why I’m expanding into group medical/healing offerings this year!

Healing doesn’t happen in isolation. Nervous systems heal in connection.

It can be really hard to re-regulate when the people around us aren’t regulated. And if we’ve spent a lifetime being the “strong” one, the caretaker, the problem solver—it can feel foreign to let someone else hold space for us.

But we don’t have to do this alone. We’re not meant to.

So here’s your reminder: You don’t have to earn support. You don’t have to justify needing it. You are allowed to lean on the people who feel steady, even if you’re not used to doing so.

And if you don’t have that person right now, know that your nervous system can heal by holding space for Through self-compassion. Through deep exhales, movement, and moments that remind you that you are already whole. Even when parts feel broken at times.

Who or what helps you feel truly seen, heard, and held? 💕

04/26/2024

As your baby acclimates to being it's own human (The Fourth Trimester) the whole family benefits from the process of having things be soft, to be more effortless on their part. That means support of a community. These new beings have steadily ripened into our arms and into the world. That deserves the reverance of love that is shared to lend them strength in this journey of Parenthood 💗

02/09/2024

Watching babies grow is watching consciousness from spirit realm fading into our Existence. They tune in more and more as the weeks progress. Watching that level of awareness unfolding each day is so exciting and bittersweet..

And off the cuff (not really if you know me): The Physical Realm is the matrix if you think about it. Our energy is used to power our and all else’s experience. This Existence is where we plug our spirits into avatars.

01/07/2024

I'd love to take on some meal prep clients. Infused oils and vinagers, fermented foods, herbs, broths, hearty soups, pureed soups, prepped salads, easy breakfasts, etc. This can be to stocking a pregnant women's freezer for the postpartum phase, weekly/bi-weekly meal prep for busy folks, those wanting to eat healthier with more ease, I'm open to your needs.

I can dig up referrals if needed. Feel free to reach out with questions 💓