02/23/2026
One of the most reoccurring stories we seem to hear about are friends and family that are food pushers. You know when you go to an event and they are constantly telling you to eat more.
* Here have seconds.
* Oh you've gotta have this or you've gotta try that.
* Here take this home with you.
You know all the lines they use. But when they dont "hear" you say no thank you. Thats when the problem can arise. We dont want to be rude or we don't want to hurt their feelings. Yet we don't want to take the food because it can ultimately hurt us.
That extra food can be a big temptation for some. Some won't be able to resist to urge to eat it. Some people aren't strong enough to say no or to take it and then throw it away. It can be hard!
So its important to figure what you can do that works for YOU. Avoid certain events or people. Change up your responses while still being polite. Be more firm in your voice.
It'll be a little different for each of us and then of course different depending on the situation.
Please feel free to share your tips and suggestions with everyone here. We can all benefit from learning from one another.