02/13/2026
OCD is often misunderstood. It’s not about being “clean” or “organized.” It’s a cycle of intrusive thoughts, overwhelming anxiety, and rituals that bring brief relief, only for the fear and doubt to return again.
Here’s what that cycle can look like:
#1 Persistent intrusive thoughts.
Unwanted thoughts, images, or urges show up repeatedly and interrupt your focus. Even when you know they don’t make sense, your mind keeps returning to them, replaying conversations, worrying you said something wrong, caused harm, or missed something important.
#2 Time-consuming rituals
You repeat actions or mental steps to feel calm, certain, or “done.” What should take minutes stretches much longer. Rechecking locks, rereading messages, or mentally reviewing tasks can feel necessary before you can move on.
#3 Anxiety that feels too strong.
Small triggers cause intense fear, doubt, or discomfort. Touching a surface, making a simple decision, or having a passing thought can suddenly feel overwhelming, and the anxiety doesn’t settle on its own.
#4 Knowing it’s excessive but still doing it.
You’re aware that the behavior or thought pattern is unreasonable, yet resisting feels unbearable. The discomfort of not acting feels worse than continuing the cycle.
#5 Disruption to daily life.
OCD can affect your schedule, responsibilities, and focus. Running late, avoiding tasks, or struggling to stay present happens because your attention keeps getting pulled back.
#6 Avoidance to prevent anxiety.
You steer clear of places, people, or situations that trigger distressing thoughts. It feels protective at first, but over time, it limits your world.
#7 Reassurance that doesn’t last.
You ask others for certainty or comfort. It helps briefly, but the doubt returns, and the urge to ask again follows.
#8 Physical effects from stress or repetition.
Headaches, fatigue, muscle tension, irritated skin, and sleep problems can show up from the constant mental and physical effort.
#9 Emotional wear and tear.
Frustration. Shame. Discouragement. You may judge yourself for not being able to “just stop,” even though you’re trying your best.
#10 Thoughts that feel “not like you”.
The thoughts are distressing because they go against your values. You may question what they mean about you, even though you don’t want them and would never act on them.
#11 Trying to stop makes anxiety spike.
When you attempt to resist, anxiety surges until you give in to the ritual or mental review just to feel relief.
#12 Relief that fades quickly.
After completing the behavior, you feel calmer, but only for a short time. The thought returns, and the cycle starts again. As the Cleveland Clinic explains, compulsions temporarily relieve anxiety, but obsessions soon return, reinforcing a repetitive loop.
If this feels familiar, you are not broken—and you are not alone. OCD is treatable, and support can help you step out of the cycle.
Healing doesn’t mean never having intrusive thoughts again; it means learning how to respond differently to them. 🤍
If you would like support learning how to respond and manage intrusive thoughts, contact Sommer Psychology Group for a free 20min consultation. Our licensed therapists specialize in treating anxiety disorders and OCD and can help!