26/06/2019
Never disagree?
Well, that might not be such a great thing.😧😰
Yes, you may have a lot in common with your loved one but endless agreements usually mean your relationship is lacking depth.
People are as unique as snowflakes. We notice differences in each other at some point.❄️
Relationships that have developed healthy skills of simultaneously being real and respectful are the ones you see thriving years on end.
It’s healthy and normal to have different viewpoints. Disagreements are still challenging though, right?They can rock the boat of your relationship for sure!🌊
💡Ask yourself:
1.) How do I feel inside when my loved ones present an opposing view?
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2.) How do I tend to respond? Do I isolate, pretend to agree, debate, become angry, or am I curious?
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3.) How is my current pattern of response helping me achieve my relational aspirations?
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4.) How can I challenge myself to become more curious, gentle, and less rushed for solutions the next time a difference presents?
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5.) How can I “water” my most important relationships in order to better protect them from damage?
Thank you for this graphic!
