Gray's Trauma Informed Care Services Corp

02/11/2026

02/11/2026

Gray’s Trauma-Informed Care Services Corp is proud to stand with more than 430 national, state, and local organizations in support of federal protections for sensitive locations.

Schools, child care settings, health care facilities, places of worship, and other essential community spaces must remain safe, accessible, and free from fear. When enforcement actions occur in or near these locations, the harm extends beyond immigrant families. It disrupts education, healthcare access, community trust, and collective wellbeing.

For decades, bipartisan policy recognized the importance of limiting immigration enforcement in these settings to protect children, families, providers, and entire communities. Reaffirming and codifying these protections is a matter of public health, safety, and human dignity.

We joined this sign-on letter urging Congress to incorporate safeguards for sensitive locations into Department of Homeland Security funding, including protections outlined in the Protecting Sensitive Locations Act. This is one meaningful step toward reducing trauma, preventing harm, and promoting stability across communities.

Advocacy rooted in evidence, compassion, and accountability matters. We remain committed to trauma-informed systems, community safety, and policies that allow people to live, learn, work, worship, and seek care without fear.

The full letter is attached for those who wish to read more.

In solidarity,
Gray’s Trauma-Informed Care Services Corp

02/11/2026

Gray’s Trauma-Informed Care Services Corp is proud to stand with more than 430 national, state, and local organizations in support of federal protections for sensitive locations.

Schools, child care settings, health care facilities, places of worship, and other essential community spaces must remain safe, accessible, and free from fear. When enforcement actions occur in or near these locations, the harm extends beyond immigrant families. It disrupts education, healthcare access, community trust, and collective wellbeing.

For decades, bipartisan policy recognized the importance of limiting immigration enforcement in these settings to protect children, families, providers, and entire communities. Reaffirming and codifying these protections is a matter of public health, safety, and human dignity.

We joined this sign-on letter urging Congress to incorporate safeguards for sensitive locations into Department of Homeland Security funding, including protections outlined in the Protecting Sensitive Locations Act. This is one meaningful step toward reducing trauma, preventing harm, and promoting stability across communities.

Advocacy rooted in evidence, compassion, and accountability matters. We remain committed to trauma-informed systems, community safety, and policies that allow people to live, learn, work, worship, and seek care without fear.

The full letter is attached for those who wish to read more.

In solidarity,
Gray’s Trauma-Informed Care Services Corp

02/04/2026

Today, Gray’s Trauma-Informed Care Services Corp proudly stands in solidarity with SB 882, legislation dedicated to protecting families seeking citizenship while ensuring their safety.

After 33 years of fighting for justice, I am deeply honored to lend my voice, the heart of my organization, and that of our collaborative partners...
from the California Partnership to End Domestic Violence to immigration, DEI, and child advocacy agencies, to this vital cause.

Justice means ensuring every family is safe, seen, and supported in their journey. Our letter of support is on its way to Capitol Hill, because this is what we do: we ensure justice rolls forward.

Justice isn’t just a cause I support, it’s woven into who I am and what I do. While my focus is on domestic violence prevention, victim advocacy, law enforcement administration, preventing violence and working with justice adjacent organizations for intervention, educating others about it, and intervening in crises, supporting SB 882 aligns with that mission.

When we create safer pathways for families, we reduce the conditions where violence can take root. That’s why my organization and our collaborative partners stand for causes like this.... to foster a future where prevention is possible, and violence is less likely to occur.

If you are not in social services, law enforcement, child abuse prevention, public health, human and health services, or domestic violence prevention & intervention, this doesn't mean you can't do something for your state or country. In fact, it is really important that you help out your fellow human beings, whenever you are able.

Community engagement is the heartbeat of lasting change. By supporting SB 882, we’re not just advocating behind closed doors, we’re inviting our communities to learn, engage, and ensure justice reaches families everywhere.

Together, we build a safer, more just future for all.

02/02/2026

Level 1 case studies represent some of the most common experiences victim advocates encounter. While they may appear rare or extreme, most advocates will come across a case like this at least once in their career.

Level 1 Case Study | When the Full Story Takes Time

A young woman with a history of traumatic brain injury sought medical care for persistent headaches. She was told that being slapped months earlier would not explain her symptoms. Still, her physician referred her to a victim advocate for additional support while they continued to investigate.

The client was hesitant. She told the physician, “I’m not one of those women who get beaten by their husband. We fight, sure, but I fight back.” With compassion, the physician explained that advocacy support could help her access resources while they searched for answers. She agreed.

When she met with the advocate, the client shared that during a recent argument, her husband had “knocked her around more than usual.” She could not clearly remember what happened, only that her head had hurt constantly since and she knew she had sustained a cranial injury in the past. The advocate encouraged her to request a new CT scan, explaining that when people already have a TBI, a new head injury may have been acquired related to her current domestic violence situation. The advocate informed the client that being cautious was appropriate.

It should be noted, in many cases of domestic violence head injuries are often missed.

The client scheduled the appointment with the physician. The physician initially believed her symptoms resembled common headaches but ordered the scan to be safe.

An hour later, multiple providers entered her room. The CT revealed something unimaginable. A bullet was lodged in her brain.

Her husband had not only hit her. He had shot her. The memory loss was attributed to the injury. The incident was reported, and prosecutors moved forward.

Yet during the legal process, the client recanted. After communicating with her husband from jail, she came to believe his explanation that she had accidentally shot herself and that the advocate had “put ideas in her head.”

The client's domestic violence case was dismissed. However, prosecutors later pursued a separate charge for attempted murder.

Under laws like California Penal Code 664/187, prosecutors do not need the victim to testify to prove attempted murder. Instead, they must show that the person intended to kill, which can be demonstrated through evidence such as the use of a weapon, the severity of the actions, or prior threats.

Advocate Food for Thought:

Recantation does not mean deception. It is often the result of trauma, coercion, fear, loyalty, or survival. Sometimes the truth emerges immediately. Sometimes it takes years. Our role, as victim advocates, is to hold space for safety, not certainty.

02/02/2026

Case Study | Level 2

Level 2 case studies often require broader thinking, deeper investigation, research, and cross-collaboration. In organizational settings, these are often some of the most complex cases to navigate, especially when it comes to appropriately resourcing and supporting clients.

A victim advocate received a client with young children who consistently stayed late at work, finding reasons to avoid going home. When gently asked whether domestic violence was the reason, the client explained that her husband had only become physically violent once, after she told him she wanted to separate so she could “experience life and the world.” She could not explain why the attack happened and initially did not connect her avoidance of home to violence.

The client became extremely distressed when informed that the shelter program was designed for emergency placement and that she might not qualify for transitional living. A residential therapist’s initial assessment revealed what appeared to be a stable childhood. She was raised by a single parent and was well cared for. At 19, she married a longtime family friend after becoming pregnant.

Despite the therapist’s assessment, the advocate sensed something was missing. The client did not present as easily frightened, which did not align with the level of distress she displayed. During a later check-in, the advocate asked how long she had known her husband. The answer was her entire life. When asked about the age difference, the client estimated around twenty years.

A joint meeting between the advocate and therapist revealed the truth. The husband had been the client’s lifelong perpetrator. She had been forced into marriage after becoming pregnant, cementing years of coercion and control that had never been named or understood as abuse.

Food for Thought for Victim Advocates:

When something feels off, do not stop at the surface. Odd behavior can signal polyvictimization, coercive control, mental health impacts, or long-term trauma that has never been given language. Domestic violence is rarely one-dimensional. It is layered, complex, and deeply contextual. Our role is to help clients move from surviving to truly thriving.

02/02/2026

New Article!!!

Title: Somatic Symptoms and Domestic Violence

Synopsis: This topic is too often misunderstood. Survivors of domestic violence frequently experience chronic physical symptoms, repeated medical visits, and a persistent sense that something is “wrong” with their bodies. This article explains why. It explores how prolonged trauma affects the brain and nervous system, particularly the limbic system, and how those changes can manifest as very real somatic distress.

I hope this article works to help survivors feel less alone and helps professionals better understand what trauma looks like when it lives in the body.

Thank you to everyone who continues to read, reflect on, and support my life's passion, research, and work.



Link: https://link.springer.com/rwe/10.1007/978-3-030-85493-5_1576-1

Reference:
Chapman-Gray, A.D. (2026). Somatic Symptoms and Domestic Violence. In: Shackelford, T.K. (eds) Encyclopedia of Domestic Violence. Springer, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-030-85493-5_1576-1

website(s):
http://www.gettraumainformed.com
https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Amber-Gray
https://www.linkedin.com/in/adgraydbh/
https://thefreedomtrainproject.org/

01/14/2026

The House has done its part by passing the Crime Victims Fund Stabilization Act.

As violence preventionists, Gray’s knows how essential this bipartisan bill is for stabilizing the Crime Victims Fund, which domestic violence shelters, r**e crisis centers and child advocacy programs rely on for life‑saving services.

We urge the Senate to take up and approve this legislation immediately so that victims and survivors of domestic violence and other crimes can access consistent, timely support.

Delaying this measure would jeopardize critical services; survivors deserve decisive action now.

Advocate

01/13/2026

🛑 New on PARAGON | Gray’s Trauma-Informed Care Services Corp

Human trafficking does not always look like what we expect. It often hides in plain sight.

In my newest article in PARAGON, I examine human trafficking and prevention through a trauma-informed, evidence-based lens. The piece breaks down how trafficking occurs, who is most vulnerable, common myths versus realities, and what prevention actually looks like at the individual, community, and systems levels.

This article is written for providers, educators, advocates, parents, and community members who want to move beyond awareness and toward meaningful prevention and intervention.

Trafficking is not just a criminal justice issue. It is a public health issue, a human rights issue, and a community responsibility.

📖 Read the full article in PARAGON, the e-Magazine of Gray’s Trauma-Informed Care Services Corp

🧠 Trauma-informed

📊 Evidence-based

🤍 Survivor-centered

Because prevention begins with understanding.

Link: https://lnkd.in/g9QeS6DE

01/13/2026

Violence is not just something we witness. It is something our bodies absorb.

In my newest blog, I explore violent media consumption and what repeated exposure to violence does to the brain, nervous system, and body. From heightened stress responses and desensitization to changes in emotional regulation, sleep, and threat perception, this piece looks at violence through a trauma-informed, science-grounded lens.

This is not about censorship or blame. It is about awareness, choice, and care. Many of us consume violent content without realizing how deeply it can shape our mental health, our physiology, and even how we relate to one another.

If you are a parent, educator, advocate, provider, or simply someone trying to protect your peace in an increasingly loud world, this blog is for you.

📖 Read the full post on the Freedom Train Project Blog

💬 Thoughtful discussion welcome

🤍 Trauma-informed. Evidence-based. Human-centered.

Because what we take in matters. And so do you.

Link: https://thefreedomtrainproject.org/2026/01/12/protecting-your-mind-and-heart-from-violent-media-exposure/

01/09/2026

January is National Human Trafficking Awareness Month.

At Gray’s Trauma-Informed Care Services Corp, we are committed to raising awareness about the realities of human trafficking and how prevention and intervention can make a difference.

Over the years, we have taken significant steps to educate communities and professionals about identifying and responding to trafficking situations.

We also want to let you know that there is a certification available through the National Association of Forensic Counselors for those interested in becoming certified in human trafficking victim services and becoming a Certified Human Trafficking Victim Services Provider (CHTVSP).

If you or your organization would like specialized training on human trafficking prevention and intervention, Gray’s Trauma-Informed Care Services Corp is here to help.

We offer tailored trainings to equip you with the knowledge and tools you need.

For information on human trafficking training, tailored staff trainings, training availability, and pricing, please contact Gray’s Trauma-Informed Care Services Corp at 951-382-4841 to schedule a consultation call.

01/09/2026

Many people witnessed the killing of Renee Nicole Good. Her wife and child lost a future that should have been ordinary and long.

Working in violence prevention and intervention, I have learned that violence leaves shockwaves far beyond the moment itself. It wounds families, communities, and those who witness it.

Lately, the news has been one tragedy after another, and it can feel overwhelming... It is suffocating. It can feel like pain, like despair. Bearing witness to the darker parts of humanity can be traumatizing in its own right.

Please don’t lose hope. If the news feels heavy, you’re not alone. Reach out. Talk to someone. You deserve care and support.

In the U.S., you can call or text 988, the Su***de & Crisis Lifeline, available 24/7.

May we choose care, accountability, and humanity, especially when it feels hardest.