11/10/2025
Our frequency is the gateway to our timeline ahead✨
When fear dresses up as responsibility, as realistic assessment of risk, it becomes much harder to distinguish from genuine wisdom.
This is fear’s most successful adaptation: it has learned to speak in the language of rationality.
We tell ourselves we’re staying in situations that don’t serve us because leaving would be impractical. This sounds pragmatic. But dig deeper and we’ll find we’re afraid of uncertainty more than we’re unhappy with our current circumstances.
Fear generates reasons. It’s remarkably good at it. It can produce an unlimited supply of logical-sounding justifications for avoiding whatever frightens us. And because these justifications are technically true, because the risks we’re identifying are real risks, we can convince ourselves we’re being rational rather than avoidant.
The difference lies in the starting point. Rational analysis begins with a question: “What’s the best course of action given my values and goals?” Fear-based reasoning begins with a conclusion: “I need to avoid this,” and then works backward to find reasons that justify the avoidance.
I continue to understand myself, my values, what I’m put here to do and what low frequency operating systems are still running. I’m very far from perfect. Instead, I find perfect moments for me, when I hone in my ability to get curious and ask questions to deepen my meaning of life, my purpose in it and how I show up.
I’ve realized something BIG that has been showing up for me and I’m noticing it now, because it’s time to shift it. It’s served its purpose.
With all of my healing I have uncovered some habits. I have a majestically unique🦄✨ ability of over giving & over thinking relationally, in fear that the closest person to me is going to emotionally abandon me when a growth moment is presenting itself.
Abandonment beliefs never resonated - I don’t have a fear of being alone. I’ve tackled that. But the nuance of the emotional element is📍 So I have drawn in experiences that prove that fear right. I know where it started, so now I can complete the cycle by replacing an old operating system with habits for a new one ❤️🔥
