Mission 5 Fold

02/13/2026

While the traditional commandment is to "love your neighbor as yourself," many people skip the "as yourself" part. If your own soul is depleted, your ability to love God and others becomes a chore rather than an overflow.
​Here is how those priorities look when aligned:

​1. Love God First (The Source)
​Setting your focus here provides the "map" and the energy for the rest of the journey.

​Matthew 22:37: "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind."

​The Logic: When you connect to the source of love first, you aren't relying on your own limited battery pack.

​2. Love Yourself (The Vessel)
​This isn't about ego; it’s about stewardship. You are the tool through which good work happens. If the tool is broken or neglected, the work suffers.

​1 Corinthians 6:19: "Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit...?"

​The Logic: Taking care of your mental, physical, and spiritual health is actually an act of worship. It ensures the "vessel" is ready to thrive.

​3. Thriving vs. Surviving
​You cannot "thrive on empty." There is a big difference between surviving (just getting by) and thriving (living in abundance).

​John 10:10: "I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full."

​The Logic: A full life requires maintenance. Rest, boundaries, and self-reflection aren't "selfish"—they are the fuel that prevents burnout.

​The Reality Check: Even Jesus frequently withdrew from the crowds to the mountainside to pray and rest. He knew that to give his best to the world, he had to prioritize his connection to the Father and his own physical needs for solitude.

02/10/2026

God is a God of Order, he never lies so that means he always keeps his promises. Wanna dig deeper into the meaning of that with me?

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1 John 2:4, “He that saith, I know him, and keepeth
not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not
in him.”

Matt 7:
21 Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.

22 Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?

23 And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.

02/10/2026

I’ve realized that most of my anxiety doesn't come from my own workload—it comes from comparing my "behind-the-scenes" to someone else’s "highlight reel."

​In a world that constantly tells us to look around, the Gospel tells us to look up. Staying in your own lane isn't about being isolated; it's about being obedient.

When Jesus is the focal point:
1) ​Distractions lose their power.
2) ​Insecurity turns into identity.
3) ​Competition turns into community.

​Focus on the One who called you, and the rest will fall into place. ⚓️

Put it to action:
Ask yourself what is one thing I can change to help myself stay focused on my own path ?

02/07/2026

To the Person Currently "Under Construction" 🏗️

​There is a specific kind of grief that comes with outgrowing your old self. You’re shedding habits, mindsets, and maybe even social circles that no longer fit the person you are becoming. If you feel misunderstood or like you’re "starting over," this is for you:

​1. You Aren’t "Fake"—You’re Evolving
​Growth isn't a betrayal of who you used to be; it’s an upgrade. Just because people have a "file" on you in their heads based on your past mistakes or old personality doesn't mean you have to stay in that folder. You are allowed to change your mind, your style, and your boundaries.

​2. Closure Is an Inside Job
​You might feel a desperate urge to explain your new self to everyone who "knew you when." But the truth is, some people are committed to misunderstanding you. You don't owe anyone a tour of your transformation. Your growth is validated by your peace, not their approval. 💯

​3. The "In-Between" Is Temporary
​The space between who you were and who you are becoming can feel like a void. It’s okay to feel a bit lost right now. You are recalibrating. Trust that the right people—those who recognize and respect the "Current You"—will find their way into your life.

​Remember: You didn't come this far only to stay the same. If they haven't met you lately, they don't know you. And that’s okay. You know you, and that’s where the power lies.

​Keep going. The new version of you is worth the growing pains.

-Jenn

01/31/2026

There is a certain brand of "peace" that comes with being okay with not winning a popularity contest. It takes a lot of backbone to stand by your convictions when you know they might create friction or distance between you and others.

​I have reached a point where integrity matters more than integration. When you lead with your faith it acts like a filter—it pushes away people who aren't on that wavelength and draws in those who are, even if that second group is much smaller.

Let's do a deep dive; ​The "Filter" Reality

*​Conviction vs. Comfort: Most people prefer "comfortable" conversations. Bringing up faith or calling out behavior disrupts that comfort, which is why it can feel polarizing.

*​Quality over Quantity: The "liked by few" part usually means those "few" are the ones who actually respect who you are at your core, rather than just liking a watered-down version of you.

*​The Weight of Truth: being "called out" triggers a defensive reflex in most. It’s rarely about the person speaking the truth and more about the person hearing it having to look in the mirror.

​Living that way can be lonely sometimes, but it’s definitely less exhausting than wearing a mask just to be invited to the party.

***​John 15:18–19: "If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you."

​Matthew 10:22: "You will be hated by everyone because of me, but the one who stands firm to the end will be saved."

01/07/2026

While my kids are older I often think about the various age groups of children and the single mothers raising them. Being a single mom is one of the most demanding callings a woman can have, but it is also a place where God’s "strength in weakness" (2 Corinthians 12:9) becomes incredibly real. In the Bible, God describes Himself as a "father to the fatherless and a defender of widows" (Psalm 68:5)—which in modern terms includes the single mother.

​Here is a roadmap for growing in Christ while balancing the weight of parenthood alone. Hopefully it will uplift and encourage atleast one other women to continue your Christ walk; and keep your held held high.

✨️​1. Shift Your Identity
​The world may label you "single mom," but in Christ, your primary identity is "Beloved Daughter."

-The Growth Move: Stop seeing yourself as "half of a parenting team" that is missing a piece. See yourself as a whole woman walking with a whole God.

-​Scripture to Lean On: "For your Maker is your husband—the Lord Almighty is his name." (Isaiah 54:5). This doesn't mean you don't need human support, but it means your ultimate security and "provider" is God.

✨️​2. Practice "Micro-Devotions"
​When you are solo-parenting, 30-minute quiet times are often impossible. You have to learn to "pray without ceasing" in the gaps.

-​The Growth Move:
Audio Bible: Listen to the Word while you're driving the kids to school or doing dishes.

-​Shower Prayers: Make the shower your "prayer closet." It’s often the only place you’re alone.

-​Scripture Post-its: Put verses on the bathroom mirror and over the kitchen sink. Let the Word find you in your chores.

✨️​3. Build a "Gospel Village"
​God never intended for you to carry the weight of a household alone. Independence can sometimes be a form of pride; humility allows others to help.

​-The Growth Move: Find a local church with a strong "Family of God" mentality. Look for a "Titus 2" woman—an older woman in the faith who can mentor you, pray for you, or even just sit with the kids for an hour so you can nap or study.

​-Don't be afraid to ask: If someone says, "Let me know if you need anything," give them a specific task: "Could you help me change my oil?" or "Could you watch the kids for an hour while I attend a Bible study?"

✨️​4. Release the Guilt
​Single moms often carry "mom guilt" about the father's absence or the time they spend working.

-​The Growth Move: Trust God with your children’s hearts. He loves them even more than you do. He can fill the gaps in their lives that you cannot.

-​The Action: Every night when you tuck them in, verbally "hand them over" to God in prayer. It relieves you of the burden of being their "everything."

✨️​5. Steward Your Rest
​It sounds counter-intuitive, but physical rest is a spiritual discipline. You cannot reflect the peace of Christ if you are constantly in "survival mode."

​-The Growth Move: Set boundaries. It is okay to say "no" to good things (bake sales, extra committees) to protect your "best" thing—your peace and your children.

🕊 A Daily Prayer for the Single Mom 🕊
​"Lord, today I feel the weight of this house on my shoulders. Remind me that You are the true Head of this Home. Give me wisdom for the 'whys,' patience for the 'agains,' and strength for the 'not yets.' Thank You that I am never truly alone. Amen."

01/02/2026

Speak life today.

01/02/2026

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Learn to Recognize the Spirit Behind the Man

Not every man who speaks well, prays loudly, or pursues you passionately is sent by God. Not every man who shows interest is assigned to your destiny. Some men are sent to cover, build, and walk with you in purpose. Others are permitted to reveal what you still need to discern. Women of God, discernment is not optional. It is protection.

Before you date him. Before you trust him. Before you give your heart, your body, or your future to him, discern the spirit behind the man.

A Boaz carries responsibility, consistency, and honor. He understands timing. He covers before he claims. He does not rush intimacy while avoiding commitment. His presence brings security, not confusion. He adds structure to your life and respects the God in you. He does not compete with your calling. He makes room for it.

A Samson may be anointed and gifted, yet undisciplined. He carries power but lacks restraint. He is emotionally driven, pleasure-led, and careless with sacred things. Being with him feels exciting, but it is exhausting. His strength impresses you, but his appetite eventually endangers you. Anointing without character will always end in loss.

A Joseph walks in integrity even when no one is watching. He fears God more than he desires pleasure. He would rather lose opportunities than lose purity. His consistency attracts favor, and his obedience positions him for promotion. He does not manipulate. He does not pressure. He honors boundaries because he honors God.

A Saul looks good on the outside but is insecure on the inside. He is threatened by your growth. He needs control to feel significant. He starts well but becomes dangerous when his ego is challenged. He may tolerate your calling until it exposes his insecurity. His jealousy eventually turns into hostility.

A David is humble, repentant, and teachable. He is not perfect, but he is correctable. When confronted, he responds with brokenness, not pride. He grows through conviction. His heart remains soft before God, even when his mistakes are exposed. He takes responsibility and allows God to shape him.

A Judas stays close but carries betrayal in his heart. He speaks the language of loyalty while secretly negotiating self-interest. He appears committed until sacrifice is required. He walks with you, eats with you, and still sells what is sacred for personal gain. Not everyone close to you is for you.

Women of God, discernment is your shield. This is not about suspicion or fear. It is about wisdom. Godly relationships bring peace, clarity, and spiritual alignment. Ungodly ones bring anxiety, compromise, and confusion. What drains your peace is already costing you something.

Look beyond charm, gifts, and spiritual vocabulary. Watch patterns. Observe fruit. Study how he handles correction, temptation, pressure, and delay. Pay attention to how he treats authority, women, and responsibility. Character always speaks louder than confession.

Your destiny is sacred. Your future deserves protection. Align yourself with a man whose life points you toward God, not away from Him. A man sent by God will never rush you into compromise or pressure you to silence conviction. He will protect your purity, respect your boundaries, and honor your calling.

The Kingdom operates by discernment and obedience. Wise women see beyond words. Discerning women choose alignment over attraction. And the man God sends will not drain your destiny. He will steward it.

Guard your heart. Train your eyes. Choose wisely.✨🫰🏼🩷

...✝️🌱💚🦋✨🪔
𝐉𝐚𝐲 𝐂𝐡𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐚𝐧 𝐎𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 🐾💎

01/01/2026

SOARing through his word day 1 of 365.

First post of 2026, it's a year of declaration. Today we declare Jesus is Lord over our lives, and we take our mind, emotions, and flesh captive. Our spirit man will shine bright before it is said and done.
-Amen?
AMEN!

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