Love and Life Toolbox

Love and Life Toolbox Lisa is is a practicing psychotherapist doing individual and couples therapy north of San Francisco, in Marin County, CA.

Founded by therapist, writer and media consultant, Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT; LoveAndLifeToolbox.com is a vast resource of emotional health and relationship content. LoveAndLifeToolbox.com is a trusted emotional health and relationships resource jam-packed with articles, tips, tools and other resources by therapy pro, Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT and others. A frequent consultant for the media, Lisa she has written extensively for news and other online resources such as CNN, HuffingtonPost, Shape and MensHealth. Lisa lives in Northern California at the foot of Mt. Tamalpais; is a mom, a wife, a dog owner, a fitness enthusiast and a nature lover.

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03/24/2026

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Honored to again to have made this list...many years and counting. Check out  #8, that's me! :)
03/19/2026

Honored to again to have made this list...many years and counting. Check out #8, that's me! :)

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Honored to have claimed a spot on this list again. Check out  #8! :)
03/19/2026

Honored to have claimed a spot on this list again. Check out #8! :)

FeedSpot brings you the best list of Relationship blogs, ranked by relevance, online following, and freshness to keep you connected with the latest voices

This is me.
03/19/2026

This is me.

Ambivert: Both Introvert and Extrovert. 🦁

Emotional safety and nervous system regulation decreases the inflammatory response and stabilizes cell energy. Your phys...
03/15/2026

Emotional safety and nervous system regulation decreases the inflammatory response and stabilizes cell energy. Your physical body literally needs healthy relationships! Inspired by Molly Maloof, MD

I recently had the pleasure of attending a workshop at my local gym/wellness center by Dr. Molly Maloof; a physician, author, and longevity expert

Being a "grown ass adult" doesn't necessarily mean the past doesn't linger for many. Bigger emotional reactions than per...
02/17/2026

Being a "grown ass adult" doesn't necessarily mean the past doesn't linger for many. Bigger emotional reactions than perhaps are warranted can be long shadows cast from the past, disrupting your relationships and inner peace. This is the heart of my work with individuals and couples...and personally over my lifetime. ❤️

It's a common assumption that once we move out, build a career, or start our own families, we have finally "grown up" and left the past behind. Yet, for

SO FIRED UP FOR YOU. I wrote this in celebration of your music and your impact on mental health. Thank you.
11/09/2025

SO FIRED UP FOR YOU. I wrote this in celebration of your music and your impact on mental health. Thank you.

Key Takeaways Emotional safety is central to Yungblud’s message — his art encourages fans to express their feelings without shame. By sharing his personal

Truth.
10/22/2025

Truth.

Patterns tell the truth when words don’t. When someone keeps showing you who they are — through their actions, not their promises — believe them. Trust isn’t about blind hope; it’s about evidence.

Comment “TRUST,” and I’ll send you a guide on how to recognize and respond to patterns that break trust.

Nice piece on the limitations of relying on chatbots for mental health support in lieu of a living and breathing human b...
09/05/2025

Nice piece on the limitations of relying on chatbots for mental health support in lieu of a living and breathing human being.

AI cannot provide the depth, empathy, and personalized care that human therapists offer

Yes.
08/01/2025

Yes.

It takes humility to admit you could be wrong about yourself. About your limits. About the future. Pride whispers that you’re already doing all you can — that growth is for other people, or that you’re too damaged to change. It’s a lie. Your problems, your past, your pain? They’re not more powerful than your willingness to grow. Being humble enough to allow for possibility — to say “maybe I could do better, maybe there’s more in me” — opens the door to every good thing God wants to build in your life. Don’t shut that door before you even try.

Comment “NOW” to get a guide on breaking pride’s hold.

07/30/2025

"Suffering is not all bad. It can have a therapeutic power. It can help us open our eyes. Once we start facing the suffering within us we shall want to search for its cause, which means finding out what we have been feeding ourselves, what kinds of nutriments we are consuming that have brought about our suffering. We also want to find out the causes of the suffering in our society, but with this we need to be careful and exercise moderation. Being overwhelmed by too much suffering can destroy our capacity to love or to take appropriate action. We have to know our limits and find a healthy balance between being in touch with what is terrible in life and what is wonderful. We need to know how to water the good, positive seeds within us so we can bear the more distressing things."
-Thich Nhat Hanh, "Interbeing"

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