11/16/2025
The changes in the brain that are associated with Alzheimer’s disease can sometimes lead to unusual and unpredictable thinking and behavior.
Here are some tips to help you manage the changes in thinking and behavior that often accompany Alzheimer’s disease:
▪️Be calming. If your loved one becomes agitated or aggressive, try playing music, look at old pictures together, read a book, go for a walk, or engage in another enjoyable activity. Talk about “old times”.
▪️Reassure. Reassure your loved one every day, even if he or she does not respond. Use a soft, even-toned voice, and be protective and affectionate.
▪️Redirect, do not correct. Do not correct or confront your loved one if he or she is upset. Do not argue or try to convince the person that he or she is incorrect.
▪️Identify triggers. Try to identify any actions, words or situations that may “trigger” inappropriate or dangerous behavior.
▪️Gain attention. Turn off loud radios and televisions and clear the area of other distractions before talking with your loved one. This will help improve attention. Position yourself at the level of the person.
▪️Reword statements. It may help to simplify or reword your statements if the person with Alzheimer’s disease doesn’t seem to understand.
▪️Keep it simple. Follow simple routines and avoid situations that require the person with Alzheimer’s disease to make decisions.
▪️Adapt to your loved one’s communication methods. Try to understand the words, gestures, and body language your loved one uses to communicate.
▪️Review medications and watch for side effects. Check with your patient’s doctor when you see changes in behavior.
▪️Be honest with yourself. Recognize when the person’s behavior is more than you can handle. Safety — your own and your loved one’s — must be considered at all times.
▪️Know your limits. As a caregiver, it is important to know your physical and emotional limits during stressful episodes and when to reach out to others.
▪️Professional help is available. There are programs designed specifically for caregivers to learn skills in managing difficult behaviors while also learning self-care.