Desert Bloom Recovery

Desert Bloom Recovery We offer support to individuals, couples and families who are in need of emotional healing. We know healing is possible.

Our therapists are experienced in working with betrayal trauma, depression, anxiety, sexually compulsive behaviors and shame.

11/28/2025

Healing after infidelity isn’t about “checking the box” of therapy so you can say you tried.
It’s about doing the uncomfortable, accountability-centered work that actually rebuilds safety, honesty, and connection.

A betrayed partner can’t heal on wishful thinking.
A betraying partner can’t repair a relationship they’re still minimizing.
And a marriage can’t recover on surface-level effort.

If you’re here for real change rather than performative effort, this space is for you.

If you’d like to see how one of our coaches or therapists can help send us a DM with the word ‘READY’ and I’ll send over next steps depending on your specific situation.

11/21/2025

When someone says they’re an honest guy… but their browser history tells a different story, it’s not honesty. It’s secrecy.

We all want to believe we have integrity, but a deceptive compartmentalized life is not that. Living in alignment with your values creates real freedom.

If you’re ready to stop living a life of sexual secrecy and start living a life of true integrity, intimacy, and integration, send us a DM with the word START.

11/18/2025

Checking recovery boxes vs actually changing your heart are two very different things.

Doing the work to BECOME a better human takes active, intentional growing. Changing your heart to truly become a person with integrity requires willingness, humility and the conscious consideration of the people you have injured.

If you need help this area, one of our therapists or coaches would be happy to support you through this process.

11/17/2025

The marital exception for r**e may have ended, but unwritten contracts for control are alive and well in many relationships. If you are a person engaging in secret s3gxual behaviors, you are engaging in a covert operation of power and control. You are denying your spouse access to life altering information and operating under a guise of integrity.

True integrity means no secrets. True integrity means living in alignment with the promises and commitments you made to another human being. The injury of deceptive s3gsual behaviors extends far beyond the marriage. Consider your children. Consider all of the people who showed up at your wedding, who you swore in front of that you would honor, cherish and protect the person in front of you. You VOWED to keep those sacred promises.

If you have a secret sexual basement, stop letting it run your life. Get help and get it now. The injuries are extensive but healing is possible. Don’t let this secret operate one more day in your life.

Accountability after an affair looks like: ✨Owning your behavior without justifications, minimizations or excuses ✨Worki...
11/14/2025

Accountability after an affair looks like:

✨Owning your behavior without justifications, minimizations or excuses
✨Working every day to become a person with integrity
✨Showing up with willingness to create safety for your partner
✨Staying present in their pain without feeling sorry for yourself, victim blaming or taking the role of the victim
✨Understanding that affairs don’t “just happen” and doing the work required to ensure it will never happen again

It’s more than “I’m sorry.” True accountability is tied to willingness, humility and active change. It’s possible to heal. It’s not possible to do it alone. If you need support, referrals or resources please reach out! We are happy to help.

11/04/2025

Post Betrayal Justification: A series, part 1 of 100 😜 stop justifying your behavior with the lie “nothing I do will ever be good enough for her anyway.” It’s inaccurate and gives you permission to stay stuck in false victim blaming narratives.

The truth? When you’ve injured someone you love, you have incredible amounts of power to be a balm of healing when you take accountability, develop empathy and demonstrate willingness to turn towards her pain and work each and every day to be a better man.

Are you ready for a new beginning? Do you need a fresh start? The second you decide to change, is the moment you make ro...
10/21/2025

Are you ready for a new beginning? Do you need a fresh start? The second you decide to change, is the moment you make room for hope. Hope for a brighter future. Room for the peace and joy that comes from living a life of integrity. Healing is possible.

We offer a problem for men who want to STOP secret sexual behaviors and START living a live of true intimacy and integrity. DM us the word “BEGIN” and we’ll share more about our coaching program. You don’t have to do this alone.

Said with all the sass and all the love. Because I realize this is actually a skill that takes developing. I know for ma...
10/09/2025

Said with all the sass and all the love. Because I realize this is actually a skill that takes developing. I know for many people it’s much easier said than done. I realize that many early childhood experiences factor into the ability to tell the truth.

I *also* know as adults we can practice honesty and integrity. It’s possible when we make choices that injure others, are out of alignment with our values or that we just know are flat out wrong - we can own them and make efforts to atone for them. We can become better people each day. It takes active work. Like getting on the honestly/integrity machine at the gym (to use Dr. Minwalla’s metaphor) but it’s possible.

I’m a therapist BUT here are 10 things I practice for my emotional health that aren’t therapy. There were so many things...
10/07/2025

I’m a therapist BUT here are 10 things I practice for my emotional health that aren’t therapy. There were so many things I felt like I could add to this list, but these really make a difference for me physically, emotionally, spiritually and relationally.

I’d love to hear what you do outside of therapy that helps your mental health ⬇️⬇️⬇️

It’s rare that I say always or never, but in this case infidelity always injures others. It’s always paired with an inte...
09/18/2025

It’s rare that I say always or never, but in this case infidelity always injures others. It’s always paired with an integrity problem and it always involves a lack of considering the impact on other human beings.

It’s possible to heal, but someone has to be willing to name their integrity issue on top of being willing to end their deceptive sexual/relational behaviors. Treatment is intense and necessary.

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Las Vegas, NV
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