11/30/2025
I got banned from commenting on YouTube for a few days for writing a comment under one of Dr. John Delony's videos about a pitiful husband who called to complain about his pregnant wife expecting twins. She was experiencing horrible morning sickness, and according to him, wasn't doing enough chores around the house, making those responsibilities fall on him. The man wouldn't even go straight to the point and kept talking in circles because he knew that if he told the full story as it was, everyone would see him as the man-child without empathy that he is. I am someone who can read between the lines, and I couldn't stop rolling my eyes at his lack of empathy and childish behavior. Anyway, this is the comment that got me in trouble with YouTube: She probably has a full-time job, is pregnant with twins, and this guy is complaining about doing daily house chores. He's probably the type of dude who believes house chores are a woman's responsibility and is annoyed that his wife is unable to do them right now. I am beginning to think that unless you marry rich or find a man with a decent amount of sympathy, marriage is a very bad deal for most women. I'd rather be single than married to a pitiful man-child. And regardless of getting banned from YouTube, I wouldn't change what I wrote because, maybe, there's a nicer way of wording it, but I'm not about sugarcoating what doesn't have justification. Unfortunately, a lot of men who think and behave like this are the result of broken mothers who raised them with a sexist way of thinking. A lot of them aren't providers and expect their wives to go half and half with the expenses while taking the full responsibility of caring for the home and the children. And while this economy is getting worse by the minute and living on one income is unrealistic for most people, I want better for my daughter than a man-child without empathy. So, yes, I won't stop expressing my sentiment even if that means getting banned from some platforms.