10/12/2022
Women need community.
It's in our blood. Our bones.
We are meant to sing together.
Cook together.
Tend the garden together.
Play together.
Pray together.
We all long for this. Maybe this longing is ever-present and permeates all that we are, or maybe it shows its face in the quiet subtleties of life....
In the way we devour poetry.
In the way we make love.
In the way we fantasize about the lives of passersby.
In the way we draw out conversation in hopes for that familiar old spark of depth.
We remember.
Our bodies remember.
We need it.
And I see so many of us today reaching out for such community only to be met with other women who are also Under-Resourced, Under-Pleasured, Overworked, and Overwhelmed.
I'm seeing a detrimental lack of support for Mothers in particular.
{Humanity is suffering largely in part because our MOTHERS are suffering.}
Read that again.
These days moms can't hardly bathe themselves in peace-- let alone find the energy to pour into their passions and life's work.
The passion of the feminine quite literally keeps the world spinning.
Yet instead of being available for spontaneous creative flow and life-altering love, mothers are constantly forced into "Beta Brain".
Making phone calls, meals, money, appointments...
Balancing schedules and checkbooks... Playing Mom, Dad, Friend, Therapist, Doctor...
Playing every role.
Our mothers are exhausted.
So I must ask... At What Cost?
What will come of generation after generation of children being raised by tired, disembodied mothers?
Just look around.
You see...
Mothers don't need patted on the back. Mothers don't need accolades.
They need tangible support in the household and in their communities.
They need shared responsibility.
They need reciprocity in relationships.
They need to be held.
They need pleasure.
Space to release.
Freedom to create for the sake of creating.
And responsibility lies on each and every one of us to give this to our women.
Humanity cannot be free until women are free. And I believe Community is Key. 🔑
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Madison Earthwalker
Hearticulations of a Birthkeeper
Art by: Dorrie Joy Artist 🪶