13/02/2025
she was where I inherited my love of roses. my yiayia. we drank herbal tsai together and she said to me, Κάτσε να μιλήσουμε, “sit down & lets talk”, as she stirred in honey and added a squeeze of lemon to the rosemary and cinnamon greek mountain tea. her presence was soothing in a way that kept you alert, like a strong dose of Greek coffee, and also, relaxed - nourished - seen, like the essence of the Mediterranean Sea itself.
her wisdom was that of an olive tree, timeless, sometimes gnarled, always highly revered.
yiayia was a force to be reckoned with, and a storm we were willing to brave because of her heart of gold and courage. to be part of her legacy alongside 5 other beautiful humans who are my cousins, is of the greatest honors.
my ferocity and streak of unhinged fire that those closest to me know, sometimes too well, comes from her. containing and controlling it will unveil the greatest of my super powers.
at her funeral yesterday, grief moved through our family members, connected by the blood of my grandmother, in waves. i watched emotion move as the energy it is, from one to another. the powers of community healing through shared experiences was palpable. i could hear her happiness that we were there to celebrate her life, there to mend and tend to our lineage, the present and what is to come in the future.
yiayia taught me how to stuff grape leaves from the vine in her backyard.
she had the same dreams for me, that i have for myself.
she loved avraveda, she believed in herbal medicines, and she believed in me.
she was an OG barter system woman who gave what she had, in excess, for what she needed. she loved the art of giving gifts.. and receiving them. something i also inherited from her.
to have her as an angel by my side will bring e to new places, now, i know. and i am ready for what lies ahead.
in loving memory of my grandmother,
the fiercest Leo laid down to rest on the Leo full moon of 2025 (she knew what she was doing), going out in full style, grief, laughter, and everything in between.
melpomene, you are a great light of my life.
for you, here reading.. be your ancestors greatest dream come true. i know i will be. ❤️