01/09/2026
Happy New Years Friends, gosh we have missed you all,
is Everyone ready for a long overdue Toby boy update!!!!!
( sorry for the long update part, but there’s a lot to try catch us all up on )
Ok, well our boy here really has the teams working on overdrive,
his epilepsy really is that challenging to find a balance,
And I say “ balance “ because, it’s not something that will get better over time, yes there are people that have epilepsy and there epilepsy can get better, but in Toby’s case, because he has his other rare underlying condition, the reality is, Toby will have epilepsy for the rest of his life, it’s more about quality, and controlling his seizures the best we can, at this point.
During the last few weeks the Neuro team, only had to lower one of Toby’s seizure medication s by
2 mls,, while staying on all his other seizure control medications,
as they already saw it would not be safe to lower any further ,
due to all the seizure activity they we’re instantly seeing.
One of my fears going into the hospital this time, was that Toby would go through a big “ grand Mal “ seizure or really any seizure & the protocol for rescue would be the typical, which is to stand by & wait 5 “ WHOLE “ Minute s before rescue, can you even imagine! !!!the nurses even told me, they hate it, just waiting & watching without being able to administer rescue.
Anyways I asked & showed my concerns about what we should do regarding Toby‘s rescue protocol s & I found out at rounds, fToby’s rescue for his seizures, orders are to
“ Rescue him right away “ ❤️
Omg, just hearing this, I instantly felt a major sense of relief for him & for all of us & hugged Toby.
Doctor Yoshi told me, since we already know Toby Toes has intractable epilepsy, there’s no need to have him go through it all or get to a point where we cant stop it.
As Rounds continued on over the week s , I’m told his overall brain wave background is all abnormal
( the whole thing! ) ( same as before, not better, but not worse at least)
with high spikes all over, but more in the frontal & occipital lobe,
The frontal lobe there seeing more seizures though this time
( which is new )
Dr. yoshi further explained she also sees, about two smaller seizures a day, with abrupt sub clonic type seizures.
What do we do now, well at the moment, we have decided to ride this out, what the doctor s & I call, “ Toby Stable “ a bit longer,
He’s maxed out on all his meds, and I really don’t want to go to brain surgery yet.
I know it’s strange to say or “ really” accept on average Two seizures a day ect. Is “ Stable “ but reality is, !!!!!!
“ It is for Toby !” There short type seizures at the moment & his team wouldn’t agree unless safe to do so.
During all of this, Toby wasn’t aloud to leave that hospital room, he had to stay in bed 24/7, so I tried the best I could to bring the holidays & his birthday to him.
We did matching holiday PJs, a little foot art, had a few visitors, Warren also had some “ guy time” had the chapel visit a few times praying over our boy, even gave him a special prayer rock,
oh & some therapy pup visits and well after asking the charge nurse , she did let Toby Toes get disconnected from everything
( for a quick 20 minute s) so we could go see Santa downstairs, as Santa wasn’t able to come up to Toby this year,
So this was extra cool , Toby & Santa just looked straight into each other’s eyes. A very magical moment !
Wound care and a few other specialties joined in, Toby had a special bed ordered, due to concerns for further pressure sores, which we definitely don’t want to become a problem, and there were some challenging moments,
Baby Hunter was such a trooper to, he got to have a Christmas tree right next to his bassinet near big brothers bed, while I laid with Toby,
getting up, to feed baby Hunter through the night.
So many things to juggle & then throw in the holidays, Toby’s Birthday, Toby caught something too, so he’s been sick on top of everything, but everyone, we are home and healing, catching up with everything, ( or at least trying to 🤪 )
All your prayers are so felt, loved & tremendously appreciated here, you have all helped guide us everyday, words written really can’t express the gratitude we have for you all.
Sending lots of hugs from us and high footsies from our boy here. Please keep Toby in your prayers for the long road ahead of unknowns .
Gosh we have missed you all.