11/16/2025
Ever since my kids left for college, I feel like I’ve lost my purpose. My days are quieter now — too quiet sometimes. I’m proud of them, of course, but the house feels so empty it almost echoes.
For years, my life revolved around making sure they were okay. Now that they’re grown, I don’t really know who I am outside of being their mom. I tell myself this is part of life, that letting them go means I did my job right, but it still feels like I’ve been left behind.
It’s a strange mix of love and loss — missing them deeply while trying to rediscover myself. It’s going to take some time to get used to this, and I don’t know where to start.
— Lisa , 45, Austin, TX