Sabrina Gramatica MA, MFT

Sabrina Gramatica MA, MFT AMFT #150437

Associate Marriage and Family Therapist | Certified Jungian Coach | Gottman "Lessons In Love" Workshop Leader | Passionate about helping others grow through self-awareness, relationship healing, and personal transformation.

We all wear masks 🎭In Jungian psychology, these are called personas β€” the parts of us that learned how to belong, surviv...
01/23/2026

We all wear masks 🎭

In Jungian psychology, these are called personas β€” the parts of us that learned how to belong, survive, and be accepted.

They are not fake.

They are intelligent adaptations 🧠✨

But every persona has a shadow πŸŒ—

The emotions, needs, and traits that had to go underground to keep us safe.

When we ignore them, they come out sideways:

in relationships, burnout, anxiety, self-sabotage, and shame πŸ’”βš‘πŸ˜”

Shadow work isn’t about β€œfixing” yourself.

It’s about reclaiming the parts of you that were never allowed to exist 🌱

Healing is integration 🧩

Not perfection.

Not performance.
Wholeness over masks.

Truth over survival πŸ’™

The Hummingbird Therapist

# selfawareness



Most people have never heard of a family genogram β€” until therapy helps them understand why certain patterns keep repeat...
01/20/2026

Most people have never heard of a family genogram β€” until therapy helps them understand why certain patterns keep repeating.

I’m currently working on a genogram, and it reminded me how powerful (and misunderstood) this tool is.

A genogram is not a family tree.
It’s a clinical map of patterns across generations β€” emotional, relational, psychological, and medical.

Genograms can help us see:
β€’ Repeated relationship dynamics
β€’ Attachment patterns passed down unconsciously
β€’ Mental health and medical histories
β€’ Early roles like caretaker, hero, or scapegoat
β€’ Why some triggers feel bigger than the present moment

When we shift from blaming the individual to understanding the system, shame softens and clarity emerges.

Healing often starts with different questions:
What did I inherit?
What kept me safe?
What do I get to put down now?

πŸ’™
The Hummingbird Therapist










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