03/04/2026
PDA is not recognized in the US yet and is not part of the American DSM, however I can attest that learning about it from multiple sources, applying the techniques, and honestly, changing our parenting and overall expectations for our son has made an immense difference in his "behaviors" over the past year.
I encourage everyone to learn about Pathalogical Demand Avoidance, aka, Persistent Drive for Autonomy and work to helping your child in a very NEW way - that works for them and your family.
It's hard, but worth it. Don't give up, nor accept someone else's assessment of your child if this had NOT been considered.
Once you learn about it and if you try a new approach and see any positive change at home, the harder part will be getting the IEP goals to align for success and getting the schools to adjust as well.
Heather Renee
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A year ago, I put a call out to the wider community of neurodivergent families and individuals asking for you to share your tips for surviving when in crisis and/or burnout.
I was tired of hearing inaccessible and unsolicited advice dished out to families and individuals on how to care for ourselves such as going for a walk, drinking tea or meditating when many of us were not able to use the toilet alone let alone go for a walk or make a cup of tea at all.
We've now gone ahead and put your collective wisdom into a free guide - our gift to you.
A HUGE thanks as always to my amazing friend and admin/support extraordinaire Kristy T for collating all of the responses, and putting this guide together.
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Click the link below to access your free copy.
- KF
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