12/04/2025
The third principle of intuitive eating is "make peace with food." ☮️
What is the make peace with food principle?
🥄Giving yourself unconditional permission to eat.
🥄Not labeling food as “good” or “bad”—no one food has the power to make you healthy or not. It’s your overall pattern of eating that matters.
🥄Eating what you really want.
🥄Making sure there are no hidden conditions (e.g., you have to exercise after, or you have to eat less tomorrow).
Why make peace with food
🥄When we restrict certain foods or amounts of food, it can lead to feelings of deprivation and cravings.
🥄Eventually, we may “give in” to our cravings, which can lead us to feel guilt.
🥄This guilt triggers feelings of being “bad,” which can lead us to eat more—the “what-the-hell effect.”
🥄We then restrict again, and the cycle continues.
How to make peace with food
🥄Allow all foods into your life.
🥄It can feel scary at first, but trust that eventually choosing a cookie will feel emotionally equivalent to choosing an apple.
🥄When you know a food will be there and allowed, day after day, it loses its power.
🥄Research shows people tire of eating the same kind of food. This is known as the habituation effect.
5 Steps to Making Peace with Food ♡
1. Think about the foods that are appealing to you, and make a list of them.
2. Put a check by the foods you regularly eat and circle the remaining foods that you’ve been restricting.
3. Permit yourself to eat one forbidden food from your list, then go to the market and buy this food, or order it at a restaurant.
4. Check in with yourself to see if the food tastes as good as you imagined. If you really like it, continue to give yourself permission to buy or order it.
5. Keep enough of the food in your home so that you can have it when you want it. Or, go to a restaurant to order as often as you like.
The information in this post was adapted from "Intuitive Eating," 4th Edition, by Evelyn Tribole, MS, RDN, CEDRD-S and Elyse Resch, MS, RDN, CEDRD-S, FAND.