04/20/2026
Pregnancy was NOT what I expected. And if I’m being honest, I didn’t love it (don’t come at me 🫣).
I was really grateful to be pregnant, but I also felt uncomfortable in my body most of the time and had a hard time recognizing myself.
As I got further along, especially into the third trimester, things just felt harder. Physically, the wheels kind of started to come off a little. More pressure, more discomfort, just a lot more awareness of everything going on in my body.
Mentally, it was a lot too. I struggled with body confidence WAYYYY more than I expected. And navigating conversations with people was honestly exhausting. Everyone has opinions, especially when you say you’re planning a home birth. I didn’t always have the energy to explain myself or defend my decisions, and there were definitely times I would just lie or change the subject because it felt easier.
One thing that was really non-negotiable for me during pregnancy was pelvic floor physical therapy. It was never something I viewed as optional or something you do “if something is wrong.” To me, it was just part of taking care of my body during pregnancy.
And I’m really glad I treated it that way, especially as things got harder towards the end.
Looking back, I just wish more women felt supported during pregnancy in general. I was SO supported (midwife, doula, OB, pelvic floor PT) and it was still SO hard.
It’s SUCH a big transition physically and mentally, and I don’t think we talk about that enough.
A big part of why we’ve built pelvic floor PT into .pt is because of that. It’s not an add-on. It’s something I genuinely believe should be part of the standard level of care.
If you’re pregnant and want support like this, comment PELVIC FLOOR and I’ll send you more info + a discount on your first appointment ❣️