04/18/2026
Three things your therapist notices that you might not.
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You apologize constantly.
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For crying.
For talking too much.
For needing the appointment.
For taking up space you’re literally paying for.
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That’s not politeness.
That’s a survival pattern from growing up where your needs felt like an inconvenience.
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Your body tells the truth your words won’t.
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You say “I’m fine” while your jaw is tight, your shoulders are raised, and your fingers won’t stop picking.
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Your nervous system is saying what your mouth refuses to.
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You can’t accept a compliment.
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Someone says something kind and you deflect, minimize, or joke it away.
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You’ve believed you’re not enough for so long that praise feels like a lie.
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Here’s what I notice most.
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You’ve practiced making yourself smaller so often that you don’t even see it anymore.
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But I do.
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And that’s where the work begins.
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What does your therapist notice about you?