02/27/2026
Most people have access to support for infant feeding immediately postpartum, but what’s the plan once you’re home and settling into actually growing this new tiny human?
No shade to our hospital IBCLC colleagues, birth doulas, midwives, nursing staff, and doctors. They all play important roles in your lactation journey (granted some are unknowingly sabotaging you but that’s a different post) and their early guidance can be crucial in getting started. But that’s what it’s designed to do - get you started. Time and resources are limited so the focus has to be on establishing breastfeeding, so their strongest skills are usually centered on caring for immediate postpartum and fresh newborns.
Realistically, that care has usually ended by the 48 hour mark. That’s before your baby needs to really increase their feeding volume, before you’re engorged, before edema sets in, and before little feeding issues become big ones. What worked before that transition can suddenly stop helping, ending in frustration and desperation for both you and your baby. Having a plan for support beyond the hospital can keep the spiral from starting or help pull you out.