02/18/2026
I just returned from a four-day vision quest.
When you go on a vision quest, you set intentions.
But what reveals itself is rarely what you expected.
This quest was guided by my own coach. I believe deeply in having wise mirrors and sacred support in my life. As a coach, I believe is essential to invest in myself and work with my own coaches consistently, for my health, my body, my soul, and my continued evolution. Growth does not stop because we are seasoned. If anything, it becomes more refined, more intentional, more sacred.
This morning, back on my familiar trail in Wauwatosa, I came upon a cairn by the river.
🪨Stacked stones.
🪨Balanced.
🪨Quiet.
🪨Ancient.
Cairns have always been totems for me. I build them. I wear them. I treasure finding those built by others. It feels like touching someone else’s wanderer..their innate wisdom...their silent prayer.
And as I stood there, I felt something deeper.
Time.
As I approach 66, I have been in an intimate dance with time.
There are moments when urgency rises in me:
Is there enough time?
Will I fulfill the mission?
Can I redesign my business in this next season?
When I think of this as the “last stage” of life, my heart tightens.
But on my daily walks, when my hands touch stone or a tree…I remember that they carry time differently.
They are ancient and present all at once.
They do not rush.
They do not panic.
They simply stand in their knowing.
The cairn reminded me:
We are part of something timeless.
Our work is not separate from ancestry.
Our mission is not separate from nature.
I am not running out of time.
I am entering a deeper relationship with it.
This next chapter is not an ending.
It is refinement.
It is essence.
It is the most innate self emerging.
And just like the cairn...I place one stone at a time.
If you are in a season of reinvention…
If time has been whispering or shouting at you…
If you are walking alone and wondering…
You are not alone.
There are others on the trail.
And we are building something sacred, one stone at a time.