10/27/2025
My student recently hit that wall...
She was deep in the data, clicking through trees, color-coding matches, zooming in on every branch, trying to force the answer to make sense.
Hours passed. Days passed. Her confidence faded.
Here's what she missed:
โ Itโs not that the data stopped working.
๐ธ Itโs that she stopped trusting the process.
The biggest skill in this field isnโt overthinking the cM chart. Itโs knowing when to pause and ask two simple questions:
๐ค Do I actually have the right person?
๐ค Does that person even know who they are?
The DNA was fine. The method was fine. SHE was the variable that drifted.
Thatโs why it's so important to step back, reset, and read the data like an investigator, not a perfectionist.
Because the truth in every case lives right here in the quote:
โEither you have the wrong person or the person does not know who they are.โ
And once you understand that, you stop guessing,and start solving.