02/17/2026
If you grew up feeling like a burden for existing, you may carry the belief that you âoweâ your parents.
Hereâs the truth many people need permission to hear:
You do not owe your parents your self-abandonment.
You do not owe them lifelong guilt.
You do not owe them repayment for your existence.
You were brought into this world by a choice that was not yours. Providing care, protection, and support was their responsibility â not a debt you must spend your life trying to repay.
If you were made to feel guilty for having needsâŚ
If you were treated like love was conditionalâŚ
If your worth was tied to compliance, performance, or silenceâŚ
That feeling of âindebtednessâ is not gratitude.
It is conditioning.
Healing begins when you separate responsibility from obligation.
You can honor your parentsâ humanity without sacrificing your own.
You can have compassion without carrying guilt.
You can choose respect without tolerating harm.
You donât owe perfection.
You donât owe access to your energy.
You donât owe anyone the abandonment of yourself.
What you do owe is to your own healing, your integrity, and the life youâre here to live.
And if this truth feels activating, thatâs not failure â thatâs awareness rising.
â Divine Time Healing
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