12/01/2025
The holiday season brings many opportunities for children to practice and strengthen social skills - especially when spending time with extended family, participating in traditions, and navigating busy routines. However, we understand that the holidays can also bring about many stressors for you and your children due to changes in routine, meeting new people, and being in new environments. Below are strategies to help you and your family feel supported and successful during the holiday season gatherings.
🎁Giving & Receiving Gifts
Tips for Practice:
Model simple scripts such as:
“Thank you!”
“I like it!”
“Can you help me open it?”
Reinforce any attempt at polite responding!
🍽️ Holiday Meals
Tips for Practice:
Allow your child to bring a preferred food.
Practice “waiting time” using a timer.
Reinforce positive meal-time behavior such as: staying seated, trying small bites/new foods, or asking politely to be excused/take a break!
Provide clear expectations during meal-time using a visual support
👵 Socializing with Unfamiliar Family Members
Tips for Practice:
Develop a set of predictable greeting scripts:
“Hi! My name is __.”
“Nice to see you!”
Prepare your child for who they might meet or see by reviewing family photos.
Use a Social Interaction Choice Board to empower your child to choose a greeting they feel comfortable with.
📖 Reading a Social Story:
Practice reading a social story before the event so your child can feel more prepared and know what to expect, including what they can ask for if they become overwhelmed (ex: a break with break options)!
-Stephanie Higgins, BCBA, LBA