12/18/2025
Some people aren’t exhausted enough yet —
and that’s exactly why nothing is changing.
You keep looping the same lesson and calling it “effort.”
Keep asking God for direction while ignoring what your body, mind, and spirit have been screaming.
Keep saying “I don’t know where to begin,” as if you haven’t been standing at the same starting line for years.
Be honest with yourself for a second.
It’s not confusion holding you back.
It’s comfort.
Comfort in what’s familiar — even when it’s hurting you.
Here’s the truth that changed everything for me:
No one is coming to save you.
No one is showing up to pull you out of the cycle, break the habit, fix the mindset, or make the decision for you.
You have to choose yourself — even when you’re scared, tired, and unsure.
Healing doesn’t begin with a perfect strategy, a new routine, or another download.
It begins the moment you decide you’re done abandoning yourself.
One decision.
One honest moment of “I can’t keep living like this.”
One step toward a version of you that does more than just get by.
You don’t need clarity on the whole journey.
You need the courage to start.
So if you’re still in the same place, asking the same questions, feeling the same heaviness — ask yourself this:
Are you really ready for change…
or do you just feel safe talking about it?
Because transformation isn’t waiting on a new week or a better time.
It’s waiting on your yes.
And that yes?
It’s the doorway to the life you keep praying for.