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Not Forgotten Preservation Preserving headstones is not just about physical restoration; it is about honoring memories and shared histories.

With 28 years of combined experience, Mark and I ensure these meaningful testaments remain intact for future generations. About Us 🔹

At Not Forgotten Preservation, we understand that every gravestone, monument, and memorial hold a unique story—a testament to lives lived, memories cherished, and love that endures beyond time. With a combined experience of 28 years, our founders, Mark and Karaline VanDiepenbos, have dedicated themselves to safeguarding these precious legacies. For the past fourteen years, we have been working diligently on headstone preservation in our township's five cemeteries, honing our expertise in headstone cleaning and repair. Our Journey 🔹 Mark VanDiepenbos, a master stone carver since 2004, brings his passion for natural stone to every restoration project. His discerning eye and meticulous craftsmanship ensure that each headstone stands the test of time. Mark’s commitment extends beyond the physical—it’s about preserving the essence of those who rest beneath these hallowed grounds. Karaline VanDiepenbos, alongside Mark for the past 14 years, specializes in gentle headstone cleaning. With reverence and care, she removes dirt, lichens, and weathered deposits, revealing the inscriptions that connect us to the past. Karaline’s dedication echoes through the ages, ensuring that memories remain vivid, and hearts find solace. At Not Forgotten Preservation, we use safe and effective biological, non-abrasive cleaning techniques to gently remove dirt, moss, lichens, and weathered deposits from headstones, preserving the integrity and beauty of each monument. We offer a range of services including headstone cleaning, site care, and additional services such as artificial flower placement, fresh flowers, and mementos. Below are our cleaning packages:

Platinum Package Three Visits Per Year

Headstone Cleaning

Small (up to 24 inches) - $125.00

Medium (24-36 inches) - $155.00

Large (36-48 inches) - $185.00

Extra Large (48+ inches) - Custom Quotes

Site Care - $30.00 (When combined with headstone cleaning)

Overgrowth Removal

Grass Edging and Trimming

Vase and Urn Cleaning

Additional Services (When combined with headstone cleaning)

Artificial Flower / Mementos (additional charges apply)

Fresh Flowers (additional charges)

Other Mementos (additional charges)

*American Flags placed on all Veteran’s and First-Responder sites at no additional charge. Silver Package One Visit Per Year

Headstone Cleaning

Small (up to 24 inches) - $60.00

Medium (24-36 inches) - $75.00

Large (36-48 inches) - $100.00

Extra Large (48+ inches) - Custom Quotes

Site Care - $30.00 (When combined with headstone cleaning)

Overgrowth Removal

Grass Edging and Trimming

Vase and Urn Cleaning

Additional Services (When combined with headstone cleaning)

Artificial Flowers / Mementos (additional charges)

Fresh Flowers (additional charges)

Other Mementos (additional charges)

*American Flags placed on all Veteran’s and First-Responder sites at no additional charge. Gold Package Two Visits Per Year

Headstone Cleaning

Small (up to 24 inches) - $90.00

Medium (24-36 inches) - $115.00

Large (36-48 inches) - $150.00

Extra Large (48+ inches) - Custom Quotes

Site Care - $30.00 (When combined with headstone cleaning)

Overgrowth Removal

Grass Edging and Trimming

Vase and Urn Cleaning

Additional Services (When combined with headstone cleaning)

Artificial Flower Placement (additional charges)

Fresh Flowers (additional charges)

Other Mementos (additional charges)

*American Flags placed on all Veteran’s and First-Responder sites at no additional charge.

18/12/2025

Echoes of Four Mothers: A Thousand Year Thread Through Ashkenazi History
History sometimes leaves us grand monuments, carved in stone. Other times, it leaves us something quieter — a genetic whisper, a thread so fine it can only be traced through the mitochondria passed from mother to child.
Among Ashkenazi Jews, that whisper takes the form of four maternal lineages. Genetic studies show that around 40% of Ashkenazi Jews descend from four women who lived in Europe roughly a thousand years ago. Their names are lost, their stories unrecorded, yet their legacy endured through centuries of migration, persecution, rebuilding, and renewal.
These women lived in a world far smaller than ours — villages clustered along rivers, marketplaces filled with dialects now forgotten, families carrying their traditions from one generation to the next. Through wars, expulsions, and the fragile survival of small communities, their maternal lines persisted. Not because they were queens or prophets, but because they endured.
Their descendants would eventually form one of the most culturally rich and intellectually influential Jewish communities in the world. And woven through that history is the reminder that sometimes the most powerful legacies come from people whose names never made it into the chronicles.
A Light That Didn’t Go Out: The Hanukkah Story
Long before those four women lived, another story of endurance took shape — the story remembered each year during Hanukkah.
Hanukkah traces its origins to 164 BCE, when the Maccabees reclaimed the Temple in Jerusalem after defeating the Seleucid Empire. The holiday commemorates both the military victory and the rededication of the Temple — a moment of spiritual reclamation after years of suppression.
Later tradition added the well known miracle: a small amount of consecrated oil, enough for one day, burned for eight days, long enough to prepare more. Whether one views it as miracle, metaphor, or memory, the symbolism is unmistakable — light persisting when it had every reason to go out.
Hanukkah is not a biblical holiday; its story comes from the Books of the Maccabees and later rabbinic writings. Yet it became one of the most beloved Jewish celebrations, a festival of resilience, identity, and the quiet insistence that even in dark times, light can return.
A Shared Theme: Survival, Continuity, and Quiet Strength.

I went visiting today the Garrison Monument has come a long way from when I started cleaning it.
22/04/2025

I went visiting today the Garrison Monument has come a long way from when I started cleaning it.

20/04/2025

At Not Forgotten Preservation, Mark VanDiepenbos led the careful resetting of the Jacob and Anna Linderman stone at Whitehead Cemetery in New Paris, Indiana. The project involved stabilizing the foundation to ensure long-lasting support, using precise leveling and secure resetting techniques. This meticulous process reflects our commitment to preserving history and honoring the legacies of loved ones with professionalism and care.

12/04/2025

Some people in life continue to hold hurt and resentment toward those who have passed away, choosing to carry their pain rather than release it. While it’s impossible to change how they feel, it’s important to set boundaries when they overstep, particularly if they perpetuate harmful rumors or hearsay about someone dearly loved.

When a life has been filled with traumatic experiences—emotional, sexual, verbal, or otherwise—and that person has passed on, they deserve to rest in peace. Speaking ill of the deceased, especially in front of their children and grandchildren, is in poor taste and perpetuates cycles of abuse. This behavior risks leaving children with internalized feelings of inadequacy, believing they are somehow at fault for the struggles of their loved one. Additionally, a child may fear that they have inherited the same traits or struggles as the deceased, further damaging their self-esteem and creating a lasting sense of doubt about their own identity and worth.

Many factors contribute to a person’s life and struggles, and reducing their story to a narrow perspective ignores the full context of their experiences. It’s crucial to either speak with compassion and understanding or to remain silent. Continuing to denigrate the deceased only adds to the trauma they faced during their life.

It’s understandable to feel reactive in the moment, but it is equally important to stand firm in one’s feelings with dignity, peace, and respect. When someone speaks inappropriately about a deceased loved one, addressing it calmly and assertively reinforces that such behavior is unacceptable. Highlighting the roles of those who perpetuated harm until the deceased’s final days serves as a crucial reminder of the lasting impact of such actions. Their struggles often began long before their children were born, and it’s essential to break the cycle of harm rather than continue it. Standing one’s ground with grace protects the memory of the loved one while promoting understanding and compassion in these conversations.

A few minutes, some work and a stranger is remembered. these both will become cleaner as time passes.
09/11/2024

A few minutes, some work and a stranger is remembered. these both will become cleaner as time passes.

22/09/2024

Some of you know that Mark and I will be celebrating 20 years of stone carving next month. Time really flies when you’re having fun! Over the years, we’ve taken numerous stone restoration classes. In the past 5 or 6 years, Mark has felt a strong calling to preserve the older headstones in our local cemeteries. My passion for this work began with Wilbur, Ella, and Solomon in Whitehead Cemetery—a long story best saved for another time.

Older cemeteries are true works of skill and art. There are very few monument companies today that can replicate the craftsmanship of the past. Those that still do hand and chisel work are worth every penny they charge.

Once a monument or headstone is completed, the monument company’s job is done. The upkeep of the stone is left to the living, usually the family. I learned some 18 or 19 years ago in my second headstone restoration class that you can ruin a stone by using the wrong cleaning products. My first headstone restoration class taught me everything you’re not supposed to do in headstone preservation.

I usually write my articles for Not Forgotten Preservation and our pages that showcase our preservation work. However, I believe the article below should be shared on my personal page. I think everyone interested in preserving their ancestral monuments and headstones should know how to do so without causing damage.

One of my pet peeves when it comes to cleaning monuments and headstones is when someone offers their services at a cost and promises immediate results. This is a glaring indication that they are using harsh chemicals, such as bleach or ammonia. While it’s understandable that people expect immediate results when paying for a cleaning service, this expectation should not apply to historical monuments and headstones. Generally, a biological cleaner will start showing results within a few days, weeks, or even months, depending on how soiled the stone is or how much biological growth is present.

Now, I’d like to compare the use of harsh cleaning chemicals versus biological cleaners for cleaning monuments and headstones. My goal is to educate and inform people on the proper cleaning techniques so that these monuments and headstones can be preserved and enjoyed for centuries to come.

Harsh Cleaning Chemicals:

Examples: Bleach, ammonia, hydrochloric acid

Pros:

• Quick Results: These chemicals can show immediate cleaning effects, removing surface stains, mold, and mildew within minutes.

• Effective on Tough Stains: They can be very effective at removing tough, ingrained stains and biological growth.

Cons:
• Surface Damage: Harsh chemicals can erode the surface of the stone, causing pitting, roughness, and long-term damage.

• Discoloration: They can cause discoloration or bleaching of the stone, leading to an unnatural appearance.

• Weakened Inscriptions: The chemicals can wear down inscriptions and engravings, making them less legible over time.

• Environmental Impact: These chemicals can be harmful to the surrounding environment, including plants and wildlife.

• Health Risks: They pose health risks to the person applying them, requiring protective gear and careful handling.

Biological Cleaning Products:

Example: D/2 Biological Solution

Pros:

• Gentle on Stone: Biological cleaners are designed to be gentle, preserving the integrity of the stone without causing damage.

• Long-Term Effectiveness: They continue to work overtime, providing a thorough and lasting clean by penetrating deep into the stone.

• Safe for Environment: These products are typically environmentally friendly, posing no harm to surrounding plants and wildlife.

• No Health Risks: They are safer for the person applying them, usually requiring minimal protective gear.

Cons:
• Slower Results: Biological cleaners take longer to show results, often requiring days, weeks, or even months to fully clean the stone.

• Multiple Applications: Severely soiled stones may need multiple applications to achieve the desired level of cleanliness.

• Cost: They can be more expensive than common household chemicals, though the benefits often outweigh the cost.

Summary:
While harsh cleaning chemicals offer quick and effective results, they come with significant risks to the stone, the environment, and personal health. Biological cleaning products, on the other hand, provide a safer, more sustainable approach, preserving the stone’s integrity and ensuring long-term cleanliness, albeit at a slower pace. For historical monuments and headstones, the gentler, more preservation-friendly option is generally recommended.

20/09/2024

Recently, we learned that a local company was hired by a descendant to replace the foundations of two ancestral monuments. It’s truly commendable that someone would invest significantly to care for their ancestors’ monuments. However, it was quite disheartening to see the bases of the headstones encased in concrete. While I could delve into the chemical incompatibility of concrete with certain types of stone and how it can deteriorate a monument over time, I believe I’ve covered that before. Instead, I’ll discuss additional reasons why using concrete for resetting foundations is a poor choice, hoping to educate others on the proper methods for preserving their ancestors’ monuments and headstones.

Gravel vs. Concrete to Reset a Monument / Headstone Foundation

Using gravel instead of concrete to reset a headstone foundation offers several advantages, particularly in terms of drainage, flexibility, and preservation:
1. Improved Drainage
• Gravel: Acts as a permeable layer that allows water to drain away from the headstone, reducing the risk of water pooling and freeze-thaw damage.
• Concrete: Is impermeable and can trap moisture against the headstone, leading to increased weathering and potential damage.
2. Flexibility and Movement
• Gravel: Provides a stable yet flexible base that can accommodate slight ground movements without causing stress to the headstone. This helps prevent cracking and shifting.
• Concrete: Is rigid and can cause structural stress on the headstone, especially if the ground shifts or settles over time.
3. Ease of Installation and Maintenance
• Gravel: Easier to install and adjust. If a headstone needs to be reset or moved in the future, gravel can be easily removed and replaced.
• Concrete: Requires more effort and specialized equipment to install. Once set, it is difficult to remove without potentially damaging the headstone.
4. Cost-Effectiveness
• Gravel: Generally, more affordable than concrete, making it a cost-effective option for resetting headstone foundations.
• Concrete: More expensive due to the materials and labor involved in installation.
5. Preservation of Historical Integrity
• Gravel: More compatible with traditional preservation methods, maintaining historical and aesthetic integrity of the cemetery.
• Concrete: Can detract from the historical appearance and may not be suitable for preserving headstones.
By using gravel, you ensure better drainage, flexibility, and ease of maintenance, all of which contribute to the long-term preservation and stability of the headstone.

19/09/2024

I’m going to start with the beginning of what types of bases have been used for headstones for the past two hundred years. Then move forward on how to properly preserve headstones and headstone bases.

Over the past 200 years, the bases of headstones have evolved significantly, reflecting changes in materials, technology, and aesthetic preferences. Here are some of the most common types of headstone bases used during this period:

1. Sandstone Bases
• Era early 1800’s
• Characteristics: Sandstone was widely used due to its availability and ease of carving. Sandstone is relatively soft and prone to weathering, which can lead to erosion and loss of inscriptions over time.

2. Limestone Bases
• Era: Early to mid-1800’s
• Characteristics: Limestone was another common material, valued for its workability. It is more durable than sandstone but still susceptible to weathering.

3. Marble Bases
• Era: Mid -1800s to present
• Characteristics: Marble became popular for its aesthetic appeal and fine grain, which allowed for detailed carvings. However, marble is also prone to weathering and can become brittle over time.

4. Granite Bases
• Era: Late 1800’s to present
• Characteristics: Granite is extremely durable and resistant to weathering, making it a preferred material for headstone bases. Its hardness allows for intricate designs and inscriptions that last for centuries.

5. Bronze Bases
• Era: Mid-1900s to present
• Characteristics: Bronze is often used for plaques and markers, mounted on granite or concrete bases. Bronze is highly durable and resistant to corrosion, making it a long-lasting option. However, bronze is highly sought after and is prone to theft.
6. Slate Bases
• Era: 1800s to early 1900s
• Characteristics: Slate was used for its fine grain and ability to be split into thin sheets. Slate is durable but it is prone to delamination over time.

7. Concrete Bases
• Era: Early 1900’s to present
• Characteristics: Concrete bases became more common in the 20th century due to their affordability and ease of use. However, Concrete can cause issues with moisture trapping and freeze-thaw cycles, which can damage the headstone

The materials over the past two decades have changed a bit because of technological advancement. Each material has its own advantages and challenges, influencing the longevity and preservation of headstones. However, it has become standard practice for most monument companies to lay a concrete foundation for the headstone to sit on top of. The key words are sat on top of not incased in concrete. I will now cover each of the above materials and how they generally react being in cased in concrete.

1. Sandstone:
• Chemical Reactions: Sandstone is primarily composed of quartz and other minerals that can react with the alkaline environment of concrete. This can lead to the deterioration of the sandstone over time.
• Moisture Trapping: Concrete can trap moisture against the sandstone, leading to increased weathering and decay. The trapped moisture can cause the sandstone to expand and contract with temperature changes, leading to cracking and spalling. “Spalling refers to the process where fragments or chips break off from a larger solid body, often due to various forms of stress or damage. This can occur in materials like concrete, brick, or stone. Here are some common causes and effects of spalling.”
• Freeze-Thaw Damage: In climates with freeze-thaw cycles, water trapped in the concrete can freeze and expand, causing the concrete to crack. This can also lead to damage to encased sandstone, as the expanding ice exerts pressure on the stone.
• Aesthetic and Structural Issues: Encasing sandstone in concrete can detract from the historical and aesthetic value of the stone. Additionally, the hardness of concrete compared to sandstone can cause structural issues, as the softer sandstone may wear away faster than the surrounding concrete.
Overall, encasing sandstone in concrete is generally not recommended due to these potential issues. Preservation efforts should focus on using materials and methods that are compatible with the original stone to ensure its longevity and integrity.

2. Limestone
Encasing limestone in concrete can lead to several issues due to the interaction between the two materials:
• Chemical Reactions: Limestone is primarily composed of calcium carbonate (CaCO₃). When encased in concrete, it can react with acidic components in the environment, such as sulfuric acid (H₂SO₄), leading to the formation of gypsum (CaSO₄·2H₂O) and the release of carbon dioxide (CO₂). This reaction can weaken limestone and rapidly increase deterioration
• Moisture Trapping: Concrete can trap moisture against the limestone, leading to increased weathering and decay. The trapped moisture can cause limestone to expand and contract with temperature changes, leading to cracking and spalling.
• Freeze-Thaw Damage: In climates with freeze-thaw cycles, water trapped in the concrete can freeze and expand, causing the concrete to crack.
• Aesthetic and Structural Issues: Encasing limestone in concrete can detract from the historical and aesthetic value of the stone. Additionally, the hardness of concrete can cause structural issues, as the softer limestone may wear faster than the surrounding concrete.

3. Marble

Encasing marble in marble is not a common practice, but if it were to happen, the primary concerns would be related to the compatibility and structural integrity of the materials. Here are some potential issues:

• Moisture Trapping: If the inner layer of marble is not properly sealed, moisture can become trapped between the two layers. This can lead to staining, mold growth, and deterioration of the marble over time.

• Thermal Expansion: Marble expands and contracts with temperature changes. If the two layers of marble expand at different rates, it could cause cracking or spalling, where small pieces or marble break off.

• Structural Integrity: The weight of the outer marble layer could put additional stress on the inner layer, potentially leading to structural issues. This is especially true if the inner marble is not strong enough to support the added weight.

• Aesthetic Concerns: Encasing marble in concrete could also lead to aesthetic issues, such as mismatched veining or color differences between the two layers, which might detract from the overall appearance.

Overall, while encasing marble in marble is not a typical practice, these potential issues highlight the importance of considering material compatibility and structural integrity in any construction or restoration project.


Encasing granite in concrete can lead to several potential issues due to the differences in the properties of the two materials:
4. Granite:
• Moisture Trapping: Concrete can trap moisture against the granite, leading to increased weathering and potential staining. The trapped moisture can cause the granite to expand and contract with temperature changes, which may lead to cracking or spalling.
• Freeze-Thaw Damage: In climates with freeze-thaw cycles, water trapped in the concrete can freeze and expand, causing the concrete to crack. This can also exert pressure on the granite, potentially leading to damage.
• Chemical Reactions: While granite is generally more stable than other stones like limestone, the a, the alkaline environment of concrete can still cause some reactions, particularly if granite contains minerals that are reactive to the pH of concrete.
• Aesthetic and Structural Issues: Encasing granite in concrete can detract from the natural beauty of the stone. Additionally, the hardness of concrete compared to granite can cause structural issues, as the two materials may expand and contract at different rates, leading to stress and potential damage.
Overall, while granite is a durable material, encasing it in concrete can introduce several risks that may compromise its integrity and appearance over time. Preservation efforts should focus on using materials and methods that are compatible with the original stone to ensure its longevity and integrity.

5. Bronze

• Corrosion: Bronze, an alloy primarily composed of copper and tin, can corrode when exposed to certain conditions. While concrete itself is not highly corrosive agents, leading to formation of bronze can trap moisture and other corrosive agents, leading to the formation of bronze disease, a form of corrosion that can severely damage the metal.
• Electrochemical Reactions: Concrete can create an alkaline environment, which can lead to electrochemical reactions with bronze. This can cause the bronze to deteriorate over time, especially if there are any impurities or other metals present.
• Moisture Trapping: Concrete can trap moisture against the bronze, leading to increased corrosion. This is particularly problematic in environments with high humidity or where concrete is exposed to water.
• Structural Stress: The different expansion and contraction rates of bronze and concrete can cause structural stress. As temperatures change, the materials may expand and contract at different rates, leading to cracks or other forms of damage.

Overall, while bronze is a durable material, encasing it in concrete can introduce several risks that may compromise its integrity over time. Preservation efforts should focus on using materials and methods that are compatible with the original metal to ensure its longevity and integrity.
6. Slate
• Slate: Encasing slate in concrete can lead to several potential issues due to the interaction between the two materials:
• Moisture Trapping: Concrete can trap moisture against the slate, leading to increased weathering and potential deterioration. The trapped moisture can cause the slate to expand and contract with temperature changes, leading to cracking and spalling.
• Freeze-Thaw Damage: In climates with freeze-thaw cycles, water trapped in the concrete can freeze and expand, causing the concrete to crack. This can also exert pressure on the slate, potentially leading to damage.
• Chemical Reactions: While slate is generally chemically stable, the alkaline environment of concrete can still cause some reactions, particularly if slate contains minerals that are reactive to a high pH of concrete.
• Aesthetic and Structural Issues: Encasing slate in concrete can detract from the natural beauty of the stone. Additionally, the hardness of concrete can cause structural issues, as the two materials may expand and contract at different rates, leading to stress and potential damage.
Overall, while slate is a durable material, encasing it in concrete can introduce several risks that may compromise its integrity and appearance over time. Preservation efforts should focus on using materials and methods that are compatible with the original stone to ensure its longevity and integrity.

7. Concrete:
• Concrete: Weathering: Exposure to the elements, such as rain, wind, and temperature fluctuations, can cause concrete to deteriorate. This can lead to surface erosion, cracking, and spalling.
• Freeze-Thaw Cycles: In regions with cold climates, water can seep into the concrete and freeze. As the water freezes, it expands, causing the concrete to crack and break apart. Repeated freeze-thaw cycle can significantly weaken the concrete.
• Moisture and Alkalinity: Concrete is porous and can absorb moisture. Over time, this moisture can lead to the growth of mold, mildew, and algae, which can stain and damage the concrete. Additionally, the high alkalinity of concrete can react with certain minerals in stone, leading to further deterioration.
• Chemical Reactions: Concrete can react with acidic rain or soil, leading to chemical degradation. This can cause the concrete to weaken and crumble over time.
• Structural Shifts: The ground beneath the headstone can shift due to natural settling, burrowing animals, or other factors. This can cause the base concrete to become uneven or unstable, potentially leading to the headstone to tilting and falling.
• Aesthetic Degradation: Over time, concrete can become discolored and stained, detracting from the appearance of the headstone. This can be due to environmental pollutants, biological growth, or chemical reactions.

To mitigate these issues, regular maintenance and proper installation techniques are essential. Using high-quality materials and ensuring proper drainage around the headstone can help extend the lifespan of concrete bases.

Messick monument.
17/09/2024

Messick monument.

Heaviest monument this summer. Joseph and Mary Eckelbarger.
17/09/2024

Heaviest monument this summer. Joseph and Mary Eckelbarger.

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