10/31/2025
“Rainbow Relatives: Real-World Stories and Advice on How to Talk to Kids about LGBTQ+ Families and Friends” by S. R. Karatas
This book, published in 2018, was inspired by the author’s sister, who was struggling with the “how,” “when,” and “what” to explain to her three children about their gay uncle’s sexual orientation. Using information from surveys, interviews, professional literature, and LGBTQ+ advocate organizations, Karatas provides an entertaining and well-rounded presentation of what may – or may not – work for various families and situations.
It is an especially excellent resource for those who grew up with spoken or unspoken restrictions prohibiting open or respectful discussions of gay/lesbian/transgender/queer topics but would now like to create change in their own childrearing practices. Topics include ideas about talking to kids about gender and sexuality in reference to friends and family; parents; peers; shaming behaviors; school bullies; and religion.
It also provides numerous media and other resources to support LGBTQ+ and allied families.
