Nolan’s Fan Club

Nolan’s Fan Club For everyone who’s a fan of the Nolan and all his shenanigans, we invite you to follow along as we attempt to navigate his world.

This week on What Fresh F**kery is This: the new designer illness come to visit, the return of the ER trips that confuse...
03/05/2026

This week on What Fresh F**kery is This: the new designer illness come to visit, the return of the ER trips that confuse everyone, a surprise drop in from a bloody feeding tube, and the old friend Cough Assist comes to stay.
Tune in to watch us struggle through!

I look at this picture often. This was taken exactly seven years ago, the night before Nolan’s heart surgery. It reminds...
02/26/2026

I look at this picture often. This was taken exactly seven years ago, the night before Nolan’s heart surgery. It reminds me of what a fighter this kid is.

Seven. Seven!How can it be seven years since this kid came into the world and started driving the bus??Happy Birthday yo...
02/24/2026

Seven.
Seven!
How can it be seven years since this kid came into the world and started driving the bus??
Happy Birthday you sometimes sweet, always crazy, adorable, bossy, happy and wonderful boy!

(Oh and please feel free to sleep all night tonight.)

The last night of being six.
02/23/2026

The last night of being six.

Alright, definitely missed some days. We’ll try to get back on track. Hospital and StaffDuring Nolan’s first thirteen mo...
02/19/2026

Alright, definitely missed some days. We’ll try to get back on track.
Hospital and Staff
During Nolan’s first thirteen months, we spent a lot of time in the hospital. We’ve had a few stays and visits since then and I can honestly say we’ve met some amazing people. People who made things less scary. People who helped remind me my baby was a baby and not a science project. People who answered my dumb questions, offered comfort, checked in. People who cared. People who believed me when I said something wasn’t normal. People who attempted to get me to indulge in self care and occasionally step out of Nolan’s room. (Special shout out to my postpartum nurse who hunted my pathetic ass down in the NICU to give me my meds multiple times!)
I don’t think I could ever express how grateful I am to all these people. If you ever helped out with my little nugget during his visits, please know that I think you are so important and special.

When you’re just a little guy, fighting away.
02/09/2026

When you’re just a little guy, fighting away.

02/09/2026

I’ve missed some days, oops.
Diagnosis.
Nolan was diagnosed with a coarctation of the aorta and ventricular septal defect. (There’s also some debate if he had an atrial septal defect, but that was not the highest priority on the Oh S**t scale.)
In the land of CHD, these can be some of the more mild defects that can be solved with surgery and never cause problems again.
In terms of just the heart, that’s where his diagnosis’s end. But since the heart is a pretty important organ that does important things, that’s not where Nolan’s diagnosis’s end.
Nolan doesn’t follow rules or guidelines or “normal”.
Nolan’s brain did not receive enough oxygenated blood (thanks CHD) so he ended up with periventricular leukamalacia which in turn has given him a diagnosis of cerebral palsy.
When having his coarctation repaired, one of his vocal cord nerves was struck, giving him a paralyzed vocal cord (thanks CHD).
Nolan’s lungs were unprepared to be called into service since he was a bit underbaked when he was evicted. Combined with the VSD he had (thanks CHD) and the vocal cord that wasn’t properly protecting his airway, Nolan’s lungs were having a hell of a time doing their job.
Nolan had a feeding tube placed so he could receive food since he was unable to swallow without food ending up in his lungs. At first his feeding tube went into his stomach, but eventually had to be moved to his intestine to further protect his airway since he began vomiting spontaneously. (That was so much not fun, lemme tell ya.)
There’s a little more to the story and more things added to his list of ailments (Epilepsy (thanks PVL/CHD), Spina Bifida Occulta, Cortical Visual Impairment (thanks PVL/CHD)…) but we will leave those for another day since we’re in heart month.

Heart SiblingsI think David has loved Nolan since the moment he laid eyes on him. I don’t think David quite understood w...
02/05/2026

Heart Siblings
I think David has loved Nolan since the moment he laid eyes on him. I don’t think David quite understood when we told him he was getting a brother, but when he came to the hospital and was told this baby right here is your brother, he absolutely knew that he loved him.
He always has helped with getting things we need for Nolan or picking out toys for him. He loves to show things to Nolan and explain his books and games.
David has always just rolled with everything: hospital stays, ER runs, new equipment, appointments, and therapy. I am so proud of him for being strong through everything. There is no greater big brother than David.
And on the other side, Nolan has looked at David with fascination and adoration since day one. He will start bawling if he thinks anyone is scolding David and will even start crying if he thinks David is losing at play fighting with Dad. David always gets smiles and laughs from Nolan.
These two are quite a pair and we’re blessed to have them.

Heart Dad“Da-daaaaaaaah!”Nolan and Dad started off with a rather rocky relationship. And by rocky I do mean one of them ...
02/04/2026

Heart Dad
“Da-daaaaaaaah!”
Nolan and Dad started off with a rather rocky relationship. And by rocky I do mean one of them was terrified of the breaking the other and one of them screamed stranger danger every time the other one had the audacity to glance his way.
But now Nolan has determined that Dad has his uses (for playing and going) and can occasionally act as a passable (but only temporary!) substitute for Mom.
Jeremy, we couldn’t do this without you and we don’t tell you enough how wonderful you are!

02/02/2026

Heart Hero Introduction
The first of February marks the start of Heart Month. Nolan’s story starts with his heart, so of course we’re gonna celebrate heart month.
Nolan is a sassy, smart, and special six year old. We are constantly having to rethink everything we thought we knew about anything because he changes everything. 🤪
He loves to go anywhere and everywhere (but maybe not necessarily stay there…) He enjoys chaos and hazing new people in his life. He loves soup with butternut squash and tomato being top choices. He’s learning how to use a tablet for speech so we can learn what is going on in his noggin. He likes cuddles, but also likes kicking everyone off the couch so he can stretch out. He loves being the center of attention and fawned over, especially when he’s dressed up. He also enjoys eavesdropping on conversations and being nosy.
I could spend all day describing Nolan and it wouldn’t be enough time to tell you what he’s like. He’s truly special and has brought so many wonderful people into our lives.

01/29/2026

This kid…humbles me.
I’ve been working on not cuddling him as he falls asleep at night. Instead I lay next to him and then leave when he’s asleep. There are nights, however, where he wants cuddles. Tonight was such a night.
I tucked him in and then moved to the other side of the bed. This was not acceptable to him. He inched his way to me by pulling his head and wiggling his body until he was nestled next to me. Pretty impressive moves for a kid who is non ambulatory.
The entire time his tongue was sticking out with the effort of his movements which is just the cutest thing to see.
He did all this work…just to have cuddles with mama.
Or to take my glasses. One of the two.

01/12/2026

We went to the store today and someone was very, very vocal. He sang, shrieked, and shouted his way through the store.
We got to the checkout and the lady in front of us was having a very gossipy phone call. Nolan got very quiet.
As soon as we get in the car, “Nolan, were you listening to that lady on the phone? Is that why you stopped making noises?”
“Yah…heh haha hehe.”
Stinker!

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