11/24/2025
Telling yourself to "be a better leader" won't work. Your brain needs to know WHY it matters.
When behavior change is tied to identity and values (not just outcomes), You're 3X more likely to sustain it.
Saying, "I value growth so I'm practicing feedback to help my team develop." Reminds you why any discomfort or challenge is worth it - it is all about alignment with your values.
Try this: Before your next change, ask yourself, "which of my values does this serve?"