04/09/2026
Here’s something that changes everything once you really understand it: 🧠
Meltdowns, shutdowns, avoidance, rigidity — these aren’t willful defiance. They’re a nervous system under load.
When the brain perceives threat (even from something that seems small, like a change in routine or sensory overwhelm), it moves into protection mode. The “thinking brain” goes offline. Behavior is the only language left.
What helps? Co-regulation. Safety. Predictability. Play. Relationship. This is what we teach. This is what we practice.
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