Freya

09/03/2025

02/24/2025

Sometimes we give love to the wrong person, and we sit there and wonder, "how could I have given love to that person? They don't even deserve it," or "What a waste of time."

But the thing is, you shouldn't think about it that way. You should think of the fact that you were able to give love, because if you are able to give it, that means you have it inside of you. It means that that is what makes you. And it's the same thing with everything else.

It's the same thing with kindness, with honesty, with your ability to care about people. That shows who you are.

Don't focus on the way that people abuse that.
Don't focus on the way that people react to that.
Focus on the fact that you have it within you, and that it makes you who you are. It makes you a beautiful person, a beautiful human being.

✍️🏻Author| Najwa Zebian, a beloved author. From her book, "The Book of Healing"

12/13/2024

Men need to understand that women are naturally— emotional well beings. A woman is not easy to love. She has this habit of overthinking. She tends to overreact and has its own insecurities. Loving her, means you get to see her flaws and imperfections.

A woman— wants a man with consistency. A man who is consistent to his mannerisms & actions. A man who doesn't give her mix signals. A woman will love you more than anything. She will accept your flaws, do things that will make you a better man, and will always be there whenever you need her.

But you lose her when she feels unappreciated— where you stop paying attention to her feelings and to the things she's subtly asking you to do but you've been oblivious to them all. You lose a woman when you give her the feeling that you don't need her, as much as she needs you.

A woman becomes a reflection of how you treat her. No woman becomes pathetic if she's treated well. Even the prettiest woman, could feel insecure if she loves the wrong man— what makes a woman beautiful is a man who can treat her right.

10/16/2024

Time to let people go!