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11/22/2025

On Valentine’s Day, I will celebrate 10 years of sobriety 🙌🏻

I was interventioned on Christmas Day because I had a hard-core problem with adderall. Adderall was my DOC (drug of choice).

But let’s be honest, if it could make me feel different, then I was going to do it.

So, I like to say I am an addict of ALL THINGS because why discriminate with just one drug when all drugs can help me escape. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Well, that became my mindset anyway…

I got clean from adderall on Christmas but I wasn’t quite ready to remove my alcohol from my life (because that wasn’t my problem).

Ultimately, I looked at my relationship with alcohol and any drug and realized…

I am MOTHER FU***NG ADDICT.

If I tell myself that I can’t use one drug but give myself permission to use something else..

Well, I’m just going to blow my life up even more!

That’s when I decided to give up alcohol too.

But I did have to get blackout drunk first on February 13th, 2016, while going on an early valentines date with my then-boyfriend (now, husband).

That is why Valentine’s Day is my official sobriety date - I hadn’t yet come to the revelation that I was going to give up alcohol too but I was too hungover to drink in actual Valentine’s Day so ta-da!

The Hallmark holiday just happens to be my favorite day of the year…

It’s a day that reminds me of how far I’ve come.

It’s the day my new life began…

👉follow me to learn more about my life in sobriety.

👉if you need help staying sober this holiday season, click the link in my bio. This mini course shows you everything I did to stay sober during those first holidays 😘

11/22/2025

I was sitting in outpatient treatment talking to a few intravenous drug users when it hit me….

I AM NO DIFFERENT THAN THEM.

It doesn’t matter the vice…whichever drug - benzos, opiates, amphetamines, alcohol…. We are all just looking for a way to escape.

That’s why if a drug was put in front of me, I was going to try it. Maybe not the first time, maybe not the second time, but eventually I would try it.

That’s how I know, I KNOW, I would have tried he**in if I just happened to be around people who were doing it. Eventually, the obsession to escape would get the best of me and I would justify doing it just like I did everything else.

That’s why it was so important for me to give up EVERYTHING, including alcohol.

I am a go hard or go home type of girl so if I’m going to go hard on sobriety, than I’m ALL IN.

I didn’t necessarily want to be sober…but I wanted to be happy.

And I knew the only way to get happy was to first, be sober.

And here I am, 10 years later…still sober and at peace.

I have peace within myself.

I can go through the holidays with the dysfunction, addiction and weird-ass family dynamics all around me and still be at peace.

It’s amazing.

If you are looking to find sobriety, peace and happiness, click the link in my bio for “the sober holiday survival guide”. It will give you a step-by-step of how to get through the holidays sober.

You’re new life can start today ✨

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